Dog’S Last Will And Testament? Best 268 Answer

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So I found this beautiful poem somewhere and thought… I should. Split. This. With. You. Persons.

What do you do when your dog gets old?

when their feet are tired and their pads worn out.

When your words of praise are hard to hear

And her eyes are milky from all these years.

As their faces changed and turned grey.

What do you do when your dog gets old?

You. Love. She.

They rub the feet they wore by your side.

And you praise her louder and harder.

You show them your pride.

You lead them as they led you.

And you never let her get lost the way you used to be.

You kiss her nose, hold her face.

And when it’s time to lay her to rest

And you do, knowing that you loved her

and they loved you more.

She. loved. You. More.

10 Best Pet Memorial Poems

These are the most beautiful pet memorial poems we could find to honor your beloved pet. We hope they bring comfort and solace in your grief or are a wonderful way to express your condolences in a card. We have shared pet loss poems for dogs, cats, horses and also poems suitable for each pet. See also our pet loss quotes page

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Loss of Pet Poems for Dogs. . .

1. A good dog never dies

“A good dog never dies, he always stays,

He walks beside you on clear autumn days

when frost lies in the fields and winter approaches,

his head in our hands in his old way.”

Anonymous

2. Four Feet by Rudyard Kipling

I’ve mostly done what most men do

And put it out of my mind

But I can’t forget if I wanted to

Four-legged friends trotting behind.

Day after day, all day long –

Wherever my path leaned –

Quadruped said: “I’ll come with you!”

And trotted after.

Now I have to do another round, –

What I will never find –

Somewhere that doesn’t carry the sound

By Four-Feet trotted behind.

3. We have a secret

We have a secret, you and me

that nobody else should know

‘Cause who but I can see you lying

Every night in the firelight?

And who but me can reach my hand

before we go to bed

and feel the living warmth of you

and touch your silken head?

And only I walk forest paths

and see before me

Your little form races with the wind

so young and free again.

And only I can see you swim

in every creek I pass

and when I call, no one but me

can see the bending grass.

Unknown author

4. Dear friend

I lost a dear friend today

The little dog that used to lie

Your gentle head on my knee

And shared her silent thoughts with me.

She no longer comes to my call

Don’t fetch your favorite ball anymore

A voice much bigger than my own

Called her to his golden throne.

Though my eyes are filled with tears

I thank him for the happy years

He let her stay down here with me

And for their love and loyalty.

When it’s time for me to go

And accompany her there, that much I know

I will not fear the passing darkness

Because she will greet me with barking.

Unknown author

Pet Memorial Poems for Cats

5. For a cat – Love again

Oh, what an unfortunate twist of fate

Brought you homeless to my gate

The gate where once stood another

Begging for shelter, warmth and food? For from that day I ceased to be

the master of my destiny

While she, with purr and velvet paw

Became the law in my house. She scratched the furniture and shed

And claimed the middle of my bed

She reigned in arrogance and pride

And broke my heart the day she died. So if you’re really thinking, oh cat

I would like to experience it all again

‘Cause you come left and skinny

Don’t just stand there – come in! Unknown author

Poem about the loss of a horse

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6. Don’t Cry for Brenda Riley-Seymore’s Horses

Do not weep for the horses that life has set free.

A million white horses forever.

Don’t weep now for the horses in God’s hands.

How they dance and they dance in a heavenly band.

They were our gift, but never to be kept.

How they close their eyes forever to sleep.

Their spirits are unbound. They fly on silver wings.

A million molds against a blue sky.

Look up in the sky, you will see her above.

The horses we lost, the horses we loved.

Waving manes and tails gallop through time.

They were never yours – they were never mine.

Don’t cry for the horses. You will come back one day.

When our time is up, they will show us the way.

Do you hear the gentle nod? Close to the ear?

Don’t cry for the horses. Love those who are here.

Poems for the Loss of Pets – General

These pet loss poems can be used for any pet, dog, cat, rabbit, bird, ferret, etc.

7. The final battle

If it should be that I become frail and weak

And the pain should keep me from sleep

Then you will do what must be done

For this – the final battle – cannot be won.

you will be sad, i understand

But don’t let sorrow stay your hand

Because on this day, more than the rest,

Their love and friendship must be put to the test. We had so many happy years

You wouldn’t want me to suffer like this.

When the time comes, please let me go.

Take me where they will take care of my needs

Just stay with me to the end

And hold me tight and talk to me

Until my eyes see no more. I know that in time you will agree

It’s a kindness you do to me.

Though my cock blew its last

I am saved from pain and suffering.

Don’t regret that you have to be

who has to decide this matter;

We were so close – the two of us – those years

Don’t let your heart hold tears. Unknown author

8. You will not walk quietly

They won’t go quietly

the pets that shared our lives.

In a subtle way, they let us know

her spirit still survives.

Old habits can still make us think

we hear them at the door

Or step back when we fall

a treat on the floor.

Our feet are still walking around the place

Formerly the food dish was

And sometimes come home at night

we miss her terribly.

And although time may bring new friends

and a new dinner bowl to fill,

That one place in our hearts

is yours…

And always will.

Unknown author

9 tribute to a best friend

Sunlight streams through the window pane

on a spot on the ground….

then I remember

You used to lie there

but now you are no more.

Our feet walk down a carpeted floor

and muffled echoes ring out….

then I remember

It’s where your paws would happily abound.

A voice is heard on the street

and beyond the hill

then I remember it can’t be yours…

Your golden voice is silent.

But I’ll take this vacant spot of ground

and empty muted hall

and put them with the absent voice

and unused dishes on the wall.

I wrap these precious keepsakes

in a blanket of my love

and keep her for my best friend

until we meet at the top.

10. Don’t cry for me when I’m gone

So even though I give you all my heart

the time will come when we must part.

But around you you will see

creatures who speak to you of me;

a tired horse, a harried thing,

a sparrow with a broken wing.

pity – and help (I know you will)

and somehow I’ll still be with you;

and i will know even though i’m gone

the love i gave you lasts

Unknown author

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No one wants to think about their dog’s final moments, but it’s an inevitable part of life that every dog ​​owner must face. Hopefully knowing what to expect can replace some of the fear and uncertainty with a sense of peace. Thinking about this life transition can be emotionally draining, but asking the important questions (eg, do dogs know they are dying? Are dogs afraid of death?) can make the process as easy as possible for everyone.

Take a deep breath, give your dog a little pet, and keep scrolling if you feel ready to learn about this important — but difficult — time. We’ll let you know how to care for your senior dog, how your vet will be helpful during this time, and what to expect as your dog’s final moments draw near.

Are Dogs Afraid of Dying?

We know how scary this question can be, but Dr. Ann Brandenburg-Schroeder hopes to bring some serenity to pet owners who are going through a difficult time. After witnessing the peaceful deaths of her own beloved dogs, she found her calling to offer a home euthanasia service to give that gift to other pets. On her website, Beside Still Water, she assures her owners, “Animals know when they die. They are not afraid of death, at least not in the sense that we humans are. Just before they die, they come to a place of acceptance and try to share that with us.”

Read on if you’re ready to learn exactly how a dog can communicate that they’re ready to pass on.

What do dogs do when they die?

Because dogs approaching death are often aware and ready, they may behave differently in their final moments. However, before you read too much about these signs, you should know that many of them can appear due to other, much lesser causes. If you feel unsure, please do not hesitate to seek the help of your veterinarian.

dr Ann Brandenburg-Schroeder lists the following common clues that a dog is ready to cross the rainbow bridge:

Disinterest in attention or interaction

lack of food or drink

Disinterest in favorite pastimes

incontinence

want to hide or be alone

pain limitations

Of course, no one knows your pet as well as you do. Your warning signs may differ or be exactly the same as those on this list. Your trusted vet will always be there to help you interpret new behaviors from your dog, so don’t hesitate to give them a call.

How do you comfort a dying dog?

As a dog approaches its final days, there are many ways you can keep them comfortable and content. Senior dog care isn’t always difficult, especially once you’ve done some research. Regaining some sense of normality can also be comforting for your dog, but it can also be helpful to keep in mind what symptoms your pal has been struggling with if you’re not sure where to start.

Pain management can take the form of mediation, mobility support, or a number of different therapies – your vet will likely recommend something based on your dog’s symptoms. Being able to keep your pal even a little hydrated will be of great comfort to them as well. Once that’s done, you can do your best to give your four-legged friend some fun and loving last moments.

If your pet’s death is planned, there are a few additional ways you can comfort them as the moment approaches. Hillcrest Veterinary Clinic released a message from one of their vets that went viral in 2018, encouraging pet owners to stay with their fur babies until the process is complete. The heartbreaking post explained how pets often end up looking back at their owners in their final moments when their humans decide not to stay in the room. Instead, offering love and comfort until they die can be a more peaceful experience for everyone, especially your dog.

Whatever you are feeling during this difficult time is totally fine. Just as no two dogs experience the end of life the same way, no two pet parents handle it the same way either. As long as you are able to be there for your beloved furry friend, you are fine.

Also during this time, remember to seek the support of your veterinarian. You can ask as many questions as you like and don’t have to make difficult decisions on your own. That way, you can focus all of your attention on showering your best pal with as much love as possible.

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The death of a beloved pet is an incredibly sad time for owners. Whether your dog dies of natural causes at home or is euthanized at the vet’s, it’s always a stressful and worrying time.

If your pet is unwell or very old and of course nearing the end of its life, you may already have plans for its eventual death. But even the best plans can be disrupted by external factors or grief. If you are dealing with the immediate aftermath of your pet’s death, always ask a friend, family member, or veterinarian for help.

What often adds to the trauma of a pet’s death is the uncertainty of how to deal with their remains. Take the stress out of that time with this comprehensive guide on what to do when your dog dies.

Saint Roch: The patron saint of dogs

August 16th is the annual feast day of St. Roch, the patron saint of dogs. Saint Roch (pronounced “rock”) was a Frenchman born to the peerage in 1295, so it may seem strange that he should be recognized as the patron saint of dogs.

But the story has much more to offer…

Patron Saint of Dogs

Roch is not only the patron saint of dogs, but also the patron saint of invalids, wrongly accused and bachelors, as well as the Italian cities of Dolo, Parma, Palagiano and Cisterna di Latina.

Despite being born into money, he didn’t seem like a huge fan of it. After losing his parents at the age of twenty, he began roaming the countryside near Rome.

Roch was known for donating not only his money but also his time to help farmers suffering from the plague.

The plague strikes…

After years of helping others and donating almost his entire fortune to others, Saint Roch eventually contracted the plague himself. Not wanting to burden others with his care, he went into the forest to die alone.

When he was suffering, starving and alone, he was discovered by a stray dog.

Roch fully expected the animal to attack him and end his suffering. Instead, the animal brought him bread to eat. Every day the dog came back with food and then stayed by his side to take care of him.

It is said that this hound cured Roch by licking the wounds caused by the plague and bringing the man food to keep him alive.

Cared for by a hunting dog

Eventually Roch recovered. He and his newly acquired dog went into town and discovered that the dog belonged to a local earl who had been a friend over the years. Surprised and impressed, Roch the dog was presented by the owner.

Together, Roch and his newfound four-legged friend began to travel again, eventually returning to Montpelier, France.

But Roch’s life wasn’t over yet and more adventures awaited her…

Arrest and Detention

Upon returning to France, Roch and his dog were arrested as spies. They would both spend the next five years in prison together.

Some believe the dog survived by caring for other prisoners. Others say the duo was looked after by an angel.

Whatever the case, Roch never mentioned his nobility to prison officials and thus languished in prison on false accusations until his death in 1295.

Roch is hardly mentioned after his death. The only data we can find is in the “Golden Legend” (a collection of hagiographies by Jacobus de Voragine that was widely read in late medieval Europe)

Shortly thereafter, an angel from heaven brought to prison a tablet divinely inscribed in golden letters, which he placed under S. Rocke’s head. And in this table it was written that God had granted him his prayer, that is, that whoever calls out to S. Rocke meekly should not be hurt by plague

While history doesn’t tell us what happened to the dog, many are certain that it appears in the form of every dog ​​in our own lives.

October 4th is Saint Francis Day when people around the world spend their time blessing their animals. (In case you don’t know, St. Francis of Assisi is the patron saint of animals). I went to an episcopal school when I was little and it was one of my favorite days because everyone was allowed to bring their pets to the ceremony. People brought everything from ponies and snakes to birds and giant Irish wolfhounds, it was a sight to behold. If you are looking for a way to bless your dog on October 4th, here are some great ideas.

#1 – Attend a blessing

Annual Blessings of the Animals events are held in many locations around the world. For example, the St. Francis Winery & Vineyards in Sonoma, California, is holding its fifteenth annual blessing this Sunday from 2-5 p.m. This free event is open to the public and benefits the Sonoma Humane Society. St. Francis Winery encourages visitors to bring their pets — from dogs to cats, birds to turtles — to the winery to be blessed. To find one near you, a simple internet search for “St Francis Animal Blessings” should give you plenty of options.

#2 – St. Francis ID Tag

This brand will not only bless your dog on October 4th, but every day. This label is handcrafted in the USA and is available in every color of the rainbow. Puplife.com

#3 – Light a candle

When there are no blessings near you, take a quiet moment and light a candle for your beloved dog – including those who have crossed the bridge. Etsy.com

#4 – Say a prayer

There are many animal centered prayers said on St. Francis Day. Take a few minutes to pray for your furry best friend. Not sure what to say? Here are some prayers written specifically for pets or animals.

#5 – Spend some time with them

It’s a simple thing, but extra time is a blessing any canine will appreciate. Turning off the TV, putting away the laptop, and giving your dog an extra hour of love and cuddles will definitely make him feel blessed.

Have you ever wondered what your dog is thinking? What does he or she want to say? We would all love it if our dogs could talk – at least sometimes. (Last but not least, we’d be guaranteed some good dog quotes!) Instead, we have some quotes about dogs from people who love them. You’re like family to us, so why not celebrate? Here are great quotes about man’s best friend.

“Everything I know I learned from dogs.” – Nora Roberts (author, The Quest)

“Dogs speak, but only to those who can listen.” – Orhan Pamuk (Author, My Name Is Red)

“Dogs’ lives are too short. Her only fault, really.” —Agnes Sligh Turnbull (Author, The Wedding Bargain)

“Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our life complete.” – Roger Caras (Photographer and Author)

“Some of my best leading actors have been dogs and horses.” – Elizabeth Taylor (actress)

“The better I get to know men, the more I love dogs.” – Charles de Gaulle

“Dogs never bite me. Just people” – Marilyn Monroe

“I like pigs. Dogs look up to us. Cats look down on us. Pigs treat us as equals.” – Winston Churchill

“Crawl a dog and you’ll find a steady job.” – Franklin P. Jones (humorist)

“The dog is a gentleman; I hope to go to his heaven, not man’s.” — Mark Twain (author, Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

“Every man is Napoleon to his dog; hence the enduring popularity of dogs.” — Aldous Huxley (author, Brave New World

“If you don’t know what soap tastes like, you’ve never washed a dog.” – Franklin P. Jones (humorist)

“Happiness is a warm puppy.” – Charles Shultz (cartoonist, Peanuts)

“Every dog ​​must have their day.” – Jonathan Swift (Author, Gulliver’s Travels)

“As wonderful as dogs can be, they’re famous for missing the point.” – Jean Ferris (author, Once Upon a Marigold)

“What do dogs do on their day off? Mustn’t lie around – that’s her job.” – George Carlin (comedian)

“A dog is the only thing in the world that loves you more than itself.” – Josh Billings (humorist)

“Such a short little life our pets have to live with us, and they spend most of their time waiting for us to come home each day.” – John Grogan (author, Marley & Me

“Did you know there are over 300 words for love in dogs?” – Gabriel Zevin (Author, Margarettown)

“If there are no dogs in heaven, then after I die I want to go where they went.” – Will Rogers (humorist)

“There is no faith that has never been broken, except that of a truly loyal dog” – Konrad Lorenz (zoologist)

“You usually tell a man is good when he has a dog that loves him.” – W. Bruce Cameron (Author, A Dog’s Journey)

“I don’t understand people who don’t touch their pets. Your cat or dog is called a pet for a reason.” – Jarod Kintz (Author, THIS BOOK IS NOT FOR SALE)

“If you want a friend in Washington, get a dog.” – Harry Truman (former President of the United States)

“If you don’t own a dog, at least not one, there isn’t necessarily anything wrong with you, but there may be something wrong with your life.” – Roger A. Caras (author, A Dog Is Listening: The Way Some of Our Closest Friends View Us)

“If you pick up a starving dog and make it rich, it won’t bite you. That’s the main difference between a dog and a human.” — Mark Twain (Author, The Adventures of Tom Sawyer

“Dog owners will have noticed that if you give them food and water, shelter and affection, they will think you are God. While cat owners are forced to realize that if you provide them with food and water, shelter and affection, they conclude that they are gods” – Christopher Hitchens (author, The Portable Atheist)

“If a dog doesn’t come to you after looking you in the face, you should go home and examine your conscience.” – Woodrow Wilson

“Dogs are our connection to paradise. They know neither evil nor jealousy nor dissatisfaction. To sit on a hilltop with a dog on a glorious afternoon is to be back in Eden, where doing nothing wasn’t boring – it was peace.” – Milan Kundera (Author, The Unbearable Lightness of Being)

“A dog will make eye contact. A cat will too, but a cat’s eyes don’t even look entirely warm-blooded to me, while a dog’s eyes look human, albeit less cautiously. A dog will look at you as if to say, “What should I do for you?” I’ll do anything for you.” Whether a dog can actually do anything for you if you don’t have sheep [I never have] is another matter. The dog is ready.” — Roy Blount Jr. (Author, Now Where Have We Been?)

“It’s amazing how much love and laughter they bring into our lives and how much closer we get through them.” – John Grogan (Author, Marley & I)

“All his life he tried to be a good person. However, he failed many times. After all, he was only human. He wasn’t a dog.” – Charles M. Schulz (cartoonist, “Peanuts”)

“Petrifying, petting, and snuggling a dog can be as calming for the mind and heart as deep meditation, and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” – Dean Koontz (author, False Memory)

“Dogs have given us everything. We are the center of their universe. We are the center of their love and their faith and trust. They serve us in return for scrap. It is, without a doubt, the best deal a man has ever made.” —Roger A. Caras (Author, A Dog Is Listening: The Way Some of Our Closest Friends View Us)

“I like dogs. You always know what a dog is thinking. It has four moods. Happy, sad, angry and focused. Also, dogs are loyal and don’t lie because they can’t talk.” – Mark Haddon (Author, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time)

“When an 85-pound mammal licks away your tears and then tries to sit on your lap, it’s hard to be sad.” – Kristan Higgins (Author, In Your Dreams)

“Science hasn’t been able to tell us how confident dogs are, let alone if they have anything like our conscious minds. This is not surprising since neither scientists nor philosophers agree on what constitutes human consciousness, let alone that of animals.” —John Bradshaw (author, Dog Sense)

“Dogs are wise. They crawl into a quiet corner and lick their wounds and don’t come back into the world until they’re whole.” – Agatha Cristie (author)

“I’ve seen a look in a dog’s eyes, a quickly fading look of astonished contempt, and I’m convinced that dogs generally think people are crazy.” – John Steinbeck (author, The Grapes of Wrath)

“If I have any belief in immortality, it is that certain dogs I know will go to heaven, and very, very few people.” – James Thurber (author, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty

“They [dogs] never talk about themselves, but listen to you as you talk about yourself and keep the appearance of being interested in the conversation.” – Jerome K. Jerome (humorist)

“Watching a dog try to chew a big piece of toffee is a pastime for gods. Mr. Fusspot’s mixed ancestry had given him a truly impressive jaw skill. He was jumping happily across the floor and making faces like a rubber gargoyle in a washing machine.” —Terry Pratchett (author, Make Money)

“The greatest fear dogs know is the fear that if you walk out the door without them, you won’t come back.” -Stanley Coren (Psychologist and Author, The Intelligence of Dogs)

“But people drive cars and decide when dogs eat and where dogs live, and that was clearly something else in their power – they could find their dogs when they needed them.” – W. Bruce Cameron (Author, A Dog’s Journey)

“Love – what biologists call ‘bonding’ for fear of misunderstanding – strengthens the bond between dog and owner.” – John Bradshaw (author, Dog Sense)

“I think dogs are the most amazing creatures; they give unconditional love. You are the example alive for me.” — Gilda Radner (comedian)

“I’ve found that when you’re deeply troubled, you get things from the quiet, devoted company of a dog that you can’t get from any other source.” – Doris Day (actress)

“The dog has seldom succeeded in bringing man up to his cleverness, but man has frequently dragged the dog down to his.” – James Thurber (author, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty)

“Don’t take your dog’s admiration as conclusive proof that you’re wonderful.” – Ann Landers (consulting columnist for the Chicago Sun-Times)

“We are alone, absolutely alone on this random planet; and among all the life-forms that surround us none has joined with us but the dog.” —Maurice Maeterlinck (author, “Our Friend the Dog”)

“I sometimes look into my dog ​​Stan’s face and see a wistful sadness and existential angst while he’s actually just slowly checking the ceiling for flies.” – Merrill Markoe (Author, Nose Down, Eyes Up)

“The downside to the loving ability that makes dogs such rewarding companions is that they find it difficult to get along without us. Because we humans have programmed this vulnerability, it is our responsibility to make sure our dogs don’t suffer from it.” – John Bradshaw (Author, Dog Sense)

“I asked this heroic animal lover how it felt to have died for a schnauzer named Teddy. Salvador Biagiani was philosophical. He said it was better to die for nothing in the Vietnam War.” – Kurt Vonnegut (Author, God Bless You, Dr. Kevorkian)

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When you are the caregiver and companion of a furry friend, your life will be enriched with their undying love, loyalty and companionship. Pets offer you unconditional love and emotional support that sometimes you can’t get from others. In return, do your best to show them how much they mean to you. These gestures of kindness and caring create a special bond between you and your pet.

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As such, your pet is as dependent on you as you are on them. Together you will develop a trusting relationship between the two of you. You can hope for a long life for your pet, but ultimately you must make life and death decisions in their final moments. As difficult as these decisions may be, there will come a time when you will have no choice but to make the decision to end your pet’s suffering.

Below are some tips to show you some ways you can say goodbye for good.

How to say goodbye to a pet for the last time

There is something special about being able to say goodbye to your pet for the last time. For many, this opportunity never comes, especially when they suddenly lose a pet through an accident or injury.

Below are some ways to make saying goodbye a little easier or ease your pain as you prepare for your final goodbye.

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1. Give your pet a day to remember

One of the most beautiful ways to honor your pet is to give them a day to remember. You can plan to take your pet to all of their favorite places in town – the dog park, the lake, the town square, or even the Home Depot. Wherever your furry best friend is happiest, you should plan to take them with you. It might give them the best crunchies you saved for good behavior.

Expect this day to be emotionally draining for you as you accept that it will be one of the last times the two of you will be able to date together. Try to take things one day at a time so you can enjoy the moment without thinking too much about what the future holds.

2. Take time to think

Remembering your pet and all the things you used to do together can bring you comfort as you grieve their loss. Give yourself some time to digest the shock of her death, and then gradually give yourself some time to think.

You might remember her fondly as you think about all her quirks and personality traits that led to you falling in love. You can even smile when you remember the times when they were particularly bad and made your life miserable. For those special moments, consider purchasing and installing a pet plaque in your yard to remember them and honor their memory.

3. Plan a funeral or cremation

One way to say goodbye to your pet is to host a funeral or cremation for them. It doesn’t have to be a complex and expensive event. It can host a small group of close friends or family, or it can be just for you to honor your beloved pet.

You can discuss this with your veterinarian to see what options are available in your area. Different rules apply depending on where you live. Your veterinarian can provide you with a wealth of knowledge about local ordinances and procedures that need to be followed.

4. Surround yourself with support

You may feel overwhelming grief after the loss of your pet that you may need extra comfort and support to say goodbye. There is no shame in reaching out to your loved ones to tell them you need them during this very difficult time for you. If you have suffered the unexpected loss of a pet, you may have been particularly hard hit by his death and you may be suffering from shock and disbelief.

As you go through the grieving stages after losing a pet, that initial shock reaction can keep you from thinking rationally about how to proceed. You may not be able to register their loss immediately and you may miss the opportunity to say goodbye without someone to comfort and guide you.

5. Talk to your veterinarian

If you’re not sure what to do when it comes time to make a decision about euthanizing your pet, talk to your veterinarian to discuss options.

Your vet can advise on what treatment is right for your pet or when it is the right time to consider euthanasia. They can also provide guidance on local ordinances for pet burial or cremation.

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6. Pet loss grief support

If you find that you are having a hard time dealing with your grief, there are support groups you can join to help you cope. Look for online resources that will direct you to local grief support groups for pet loss in your area.

Most groups are free to attend and flexible participation policies apply. If you need a recommendation, reach out to your vet and others in your area as well by posting on apps like NextDoor and Neighbor.

7. Live in the moment

Living in the moment when it comes to pet loss means enjoying all that life has to offer right now and in this moment. It also means letting go of the past and not worrying too much about what tomorrow may bring.

If you are lucky enough to say goodbye to your pet before it dies, take the time to give them all your love and support in their last few days. Try not to anticipate the pain and sorrow that her death will bring. Enjoy them while they are here and worry about these things once you face them.

For now, focus on what is in front of you and give your pet and these moments all your love and attention.

8. Complete unfinished business

Sometimes it’s difficult to say goodbye and we instead choose to turn our attention to other things rather than face the reality that death is near. You can make the most of your pet’s last few days by sitting down with them and telling them all the things you wish you had said beforehand. Let your pet know how much you love them and how much joy they have brought into your life.

If you regret not being the best caregiver a pet could have, tell them that too. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and understanding. Your pet is likely to listen and understand the sentiment behind your words.

9. Take more pictures

Taking some time to take photos with your pet can make for a fun day out as you create new memories that will last for the rest of their lives.

When your pet is in its last stages of life, it may not have the energy to get out and frolic while you follow with your camera. Instead, you might be able to stay indoors and dress up, or have fun cooking special meals together and making your pet the official taste tester. This can liven up their spirits as you create some final fond memories together.

How to say goodbye to a pet on social media

Online platforms have made it easy to share the news of your pet’s death. This is a great way to let everyone in your social circles know that this is a special time of bereavement for you. The following can help you mourn the loss of your pet through social media.

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10. Create a memorial page

Consider setting up a memorial page in honor of your pet. You can invite a select group of people to share in your loss.

You can also invite them to view and post photos and memories of your pet and leave comments or condolences. A memorial page also serves as a pick-me-up for you when you’re feeling down.

11. Join an online support group

Online grief groups connect you with others who have also lost a pet and are grieving the same loss as you. These groups of virtual strangers, who come together to offer support and encouragement, are sometimes more effective in coping with your loss than your home social network.

Sometimes family and friends may not understand what you are experiencing and may even downplay your loss. With an online support group, you remain relatively anonymous because no one knows you personally and you are freer to be completely open about the extent of your pain and suffering without feeling shame or embarrassment at your grief.

12. Upload a special playlist

Music has a way of healing our souls when we are suffering through grief and grief. There is a huge library of funeral music available online for free. If you feel the need for a special pick-me-up, take some time to compile a list of your favorites so you can share them online with others who may be going through the same thing as you.

Her carefully curated list of songs might be just what another person needs to help them cope with their grief. You can add your playlist to free online sources like YouTube, Instagram or Facebook.

Post-Mortem Tip: If you’ve lost your pet too quickly to see or speak to them, let us walk you through what to do if you haven’t had a chance to say goodbye.

say goodbye forever

Saying goodbye is a painful process and one of the last acts of love you give your beloved pet. Even though it may seem like your world is crumbling around you, remember that time will ease the pain of your loss and heal your grief.

What to say to someone whose pet has died?

If you’ve ever lost a pet, you know how difficult it can be. For many people, grief can be as intense as the loss of a family member.

As a friend or loved one, it can be difficult to know what to say or do to help someone experiencing this type of grief — especially if you’re not a pet. But even if you can’t identify with how it feels to lose a beloved furry family friend, you can be compassionate and offer your support.

Remember that everyone deals with grief differently. Also remember that even if you have had the experience of losing a pet, it may not be the same for the person you are trying to comfort. A natural response is to try to compare your experiences to theirs and offer advice on how you got through them. However, avoid this temptation as the person may feel that you are minimizing their loss. Don’t try to change the subject or crack jokes to make the person feel better. This can backfire and make things worse.

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Pet loss: What to say to a grieving friend or loved one

Knowing what to say to someone who is grieving is never easy. You want to acknowledge their loss and let them know that if they want to talk about it, you’re there to listen. Words like “I’m so sorry for your loss” or just “I’m so sorry” are good places to start. Asking them to tell you about the pet so they know you’re a willing listener can also be a good way to start the conversation. Be sure to include the animal’s name so your request is personalized and recognizes the importance of the loss.

If you’re at a loss for words, let the person know that you know there’s nothing you can say to make them feel better, but you want them to know that you’re there for them for as long as they need to. Of course you should mean what you say! Reach out to her from time to time to see if there’s anything you can do and let her know you’re thinking of her.

Sending a sympathy card when a pet has died

Regardless of the circumstances, sending a card to express your condolences when someone has lost a pet is appreciated. When you receive the card, your friends or family members will know that you are thinking of them and that you appreciate the pain they may be going through. You don’t have to write a long letter. Just a few words to express how you are feeling will be enough.

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Pet sympathy card ideas

Thinking of you and [pet name]. If you need anything just let me know.

We can never keep them long enough! You are in our thoughts and prayers.

I wish you comfort and peace during this difficult time.

I am sorry for your loss. [Pet’s name] will be greatly missed.

[pet name] was such an amazing [dog/cat/etc.]. He/she was lucky to have chosen you as his family.

Losing such an important part of the family is never easy. I think of you. Don’t hesitate to call me if you want to talk.

I know you miss [pet name] terribly. I am thinking of you and sending thoughts and prayers.

You and [pet name] were so lucky to find each other. He/she will be greatly missed.

Other ways to show support

If you want to do something more than just send a card, there are things you can do. Here are a few ideas.

Send a souvenir gift like a personalized wind chime, jewelry or garden stone

Send flowers or a plant

Donate to an animal charity or shelter on behalf of the pet

Regardless of what you do, you should keep your eyes open to make sure the person you’re expressing condolences to isn’t in danger. If you feel they need professional help to deal with their grief, provide contact information for support groups in your area. Our pet loss resources page is a good place to start. There are many hotlines that take calls when needed. We also offer general information on dealing with grief on our Path to Healing page.

Animals in the afterlife, like pets, send people signs and messages from heaven? Sometimes they do, but animal communication after death differs from the way human souls communicate after death. When an animal you loved has died and you want a sign from him or her, here are some ways you can perceive God enabling your animal companion to contact you.

A gift, but no guarantee

As much as you want to hear about a loved one that has died, you cannot let it happen unless it is God’s will. Attempting to force communication after death—or operating outside of trusting relationship with God—is dangerous and can open communication portals for fallen angels with evil motives who could use your grief to deceive you.

The best way to start is with prayer; Ask God to send a message from you to the deceased animal expressing your desire to experience some type of sign or receive some type of message from that animal. Express your love from the bottom of your heart when you pray, as love vibrates powerful electromagnetic energy that can send signals from your soul to the animal’s soul across the dimensions between earth and sky.

Once you have prayed, open your mind and heart to receive any message that may come. But trust that God will arrange this communication at the right time and in the right way. Be at peace that God who loves you will do this if it is His will.

Margrit Coates writes in her book Communicating with Animals: How to Tune into Them Intuitively:

“Animal messengers travel across dimensions of time and space to be with us. We have no control over this process and cannot conduct it, but if the meeting takes place we are invited to enjoy every second of it.”

Be encouraged that you are likely to hear from your beloved deceased animal. In her book All Pets Go to Heaven: The Spiritual Lives of the Animals We Love, Sylvia Browne writes:

“Just as our loved ones who have passed take care of us and visit us from time to time, so do our beloved pets. I have received many stories from individuals about dead pets who have returned to visit.”

Ways to be receptive to communication

The best way to tune in to all the signs and messages that are coming your way from Heaven is to develop a close relationship with God and His messengers, the angels, through regular prayer and meditation. As you practice spiritual communication, your ability to perceive heavenly messages will increase. Coates in Communicating with Animals writes:

“Participating in meditations can help improve our intuitive awareness, allowing us to better attune to and communicate with animals in the afterlife.”

It is also important to remember that strong negative emotions – such as those induced by unresolved grief – generate negative energy that interferes with signs or messages from Heaven. So if you are struggling with anger, worry, or any other negative emotion, ask God to help you process your grief before attempting to hear from this animal. Your guardian angel can also help you by giving you new ideas on how to process your grief and make peace with the death of the pet (or other animal) you are missing.

Coates suggests even sending a message to the beast in the sky to let them know you’re struggling but honestly trying to heal your grief:

“Unresolved grief and the pressure of strong emotions can pose an obstacle to intuitive awareness. […] Talk aloud to animals about what worries you; the pent-up of emotions emits a disturbing cloud of energy. […] let the animals know that through your grief you are working toward a goal of happiness.”

Types of signs and messages animals send

After prayer, look for God’s help when you hear about an animal in heaven.

Signs or messages that animals from the afterlife can send to humans:

Telepathic messages of simple thoughts or feelings.

Scents reminiscent of the animal.

Physical touch (eg, feeling an animal jump onto a bed or sofa).

Sounds (such as the barking, meowing, etc. of an animal’s voice).

Dream messages (in which an animal usually appears visually).

Objects associated with an animal’s mortal life move (e.g., a pet’s collar inexplicably popping up somewhere you’ll notice).

Written messages (like reading an animal’s name after thinking about that animal).

Appearances in visions (these are rare because they require a lot of spiritual energy, but they do happen sometimes).

Browne writes in All Pets Go to Heaven:

“I want people to know that their pets live on in this world and even on the other side and communicate with them – not just nonsensical baby talk, but real conversation. You’ll be amazed at how much telepathy can come to you from the animals you love if you just clear your head and listen.”

Since communication after death is through energy vibrations and animals vibrate at lower frequencies than humans, it is not as easy for animal souls to send signs and messages through the dimensions as it is for human souls. Therefore, the communication sent through by animals in heaven tends to be simpler than the communication sent by humans in heaven.

Normally, animals only have enough spiritual energy to send brief emotional messages through the dimensions from heaven to earth, writes Barry Eaton in his book No Goodbyes: Life-Changing Insights from the Other Side. All of the guidance messages (which tend to be rich in detail and therefore require more energy to communicate) that animals send usually come through angels or human souls in heaven (spiritual guides) who help animals deliver those messages. “Higher beings in spirit are able to bring their energy through in the form of an animal,” he writes.

When you experience this phenomenon, you may see what is called a totem – a spirit that looks like a dog, cat, bird, horse, or other beloved animal, but is actually an angel or spirit guide that manifests energy in animal form, um to deliver a message to you on behalf of an animal.

You are especially likely to receive spiritual encouragement from an animal in heaven at times when you are most likely to receive help from an angel—when you are in some kind of danger. Browne writes in All Pets Go to Heaven that the deceased animals that humans have had relationships with sometimes “come around to protect us in dangerous situations.”

bonds of love

Since the essence of God is love, love is the most powerful spiritual force there is. If you loved an animal while it was alive on earth and that animal loved you, you will all be reunited in Heaven because the vibrational energy of the love you shared will bind you together forever. The bond of love also increases the possibility that you may perceive signs or messages from former pets or other animals that were special to you.

Pets and people who have shared bonds of love on Earth will always be connected by the energy of that love. Coates writes in Communicating with Animals:

“Love is a very powerful energy that creates its own communication network… When we love an animal we are made a promise and it is this: My soul will always be connected to your soul. I’m always with you.”

One of the most common ways deceased animals communicate with humans is by sending their signature spiritual energy to someone they loved on Earth. The goal is to comfort the grieving person you loved. When that happens, people become aware of the animal’s energy because they feel a presence that reminds them of that animal. Eaton in No Goodbyes writes:

“Animal spirits often come back to spend quality time with their former human friends, especially people who are alone and very lonely. They share their energy with their human friends and along with the person’s guides and spirit guides [such as angels and saints] have their unique role to play in healing.”

Whether you receive a sign or a message from an animal in heaven you love, rest assured that whoever is connected to you through love will always be connected to you. love never dies

Losing a beloved pet is difficult, no matter the circumstances. I think most of us would ideally want to hug our pet when the time comes, talk to them gently and ask them to wait for us on the other side (depending on your beliefs) until it’s time to settle down join him.

If this is done with the help of a veterinarian, the vet can assist you in the aftercare of your pet’s body. But what happens when your pet dies at home and you are alone? First go and cry. Your heart will break whether the death was expected or unexpected.

Then call a family member or friend to come over right away to help you. You don’t have to go through this alone. However, choose wisely and call on someone who is strong (mentally and/or physically) but who also won’t taunt you for being devastated. If your help can come by within an hour, sit with your pet until your friend shows up.

Wrap up your pet

No matter what you want to do with your pet’s body, and we’ll discuss those options next, once your help shows up, you’ll need to wrap the body. Unfortunately, death is not pretty and decomposition begins immediately.

Body fluids can leak out of the body, so place several potty pads or a large garbage bag under the body before moving it. Just slide underneath. The sooner you do this the better.

I save my pets’ collars; If you wish, now remove the collar and set it aside. Then gently lay your pet on their side, curled up in a natural position. This will look more natural to you and offer a little comfort.

Choose a towel, blanket, or item of clothing that you plan to take with your pet and wrap it (and the garbage bag that’s underneath it) in it. Then place the body in a garbage bag. Close the bag tightly.

If your pet was small, it is best if you can put his wrapped body in the refrigerator. If it’s too big, put it in a cool place, e.g. B. on the cool concrete in the garage. This will slow the decomposition down a bit until you can take precautions. However, you cannot wait long.

What now?

In recent years, pet owners have buried their pets on their property. My grandparents had an area behind my grandmother’s garden where generations of beloved pets were buried, each with their own mark, some of which had been created by the family’s children. However, due to space requirements and local regulations, few pet owners can do this. Luckily, other options are available, including cremation and pet cemeteries.

If you think a deceased pet’s body is just a shell, you can call your local animal welfare agency. They usually offer inexpensive (or free) services to dispose of deceased pets. You can also call your veterinarian. You have to bring your pet to the clinic but then they can arrange disposal.

Many pet owners prefer to have their pet cremated and have the ashes returned to them. If you do, you can then store the ashes or, if you prefer, scatter them in a place that is special to both of you. I do a bit of both, keeping half the ashes and burying the other half and planting a rose bush on top. It’s comforting to see Riker’s Peace Rose and Bashir’s Coat of Many Colors bloom every spring.

Your vet knows local pet cremation businesses. Contact your veterinary clinic for this information. Most cremation companies will collect the body, especially if the pet is large. However, you may be able to give the pet away. They will contact you in about a week to collect the ashes, usually in a nice wooden box.

Another option is burial in a pet cemetery. These can accept your pet’s body or pet’s ashes after cremation. Again, your vet will know if this is available in your area, or you can search online.

Allow yourself to grieve

Whether your pet’s death was expected or unexpected, the loss will still hurt. Our pets are members of our family and their absence will be evident. Allow yourself to grieve.

Avoid the people who demean your grief and stick with those who understand your feelings. Allow them to offer some sympathy and comfort.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, contact a pet loss support group. There are many of them; Some of these meet in person in local areas and some online. For a local group, contact your local humane society or veterinarian for information. Search online for a pet loss or bereavement support group. There are several pages on Facebook for this, including Pet Loss & Bereavement. Grieving is normal and takes time. Be patient and be kind to yourself.

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