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How conflict in dreams can help you achieve your goals

Last week we looked at how getting more sleep, journaling dreams, and looking for signs of a fresh start in dreams can help you achieve your goals. This week I will explore how recognizing and resolving conflict in dreams can be used to overcome obstacles in your waking life.

Recognize conflicts in your dreams: Conflicts in dreams can tell you a lot about the “inner struggles”. When you set goals, you’re trying to change a behavior or belief that you’ve held for a while. Often the first step to change and personal growth is to assert the will – to try to “force” the change through strong commitment. Unfortunately, many of the best intentions fail at this approach. Only when you truly accept the conflict associated with personal growth at your deepest, subconscious level, not just at the conscious ego level, will lasting change really take place in your life. Every change requires some loss—giving up, letting go, or letting something go so that new behaviors, beliefs, and relationships can emerge.

When you set goals, you’re trying to change a behavior or belief that you’ve held for a while.

Conflicts in dreams can show what you are “fighting” against on a symbolic level and what you are afraid of losing or letting go of. Perhaps you have made it your goal to create a better work-life balance. Although this is a conscious goal, your dreams can reveal what fears you would have if you pursued this goal. You may have dreams about falling down the stairs, which may indicate a loss of social standing, declining wealth, or a downward trend in your career. Or you may have dreams about not being able to drive a car, symbolizing your fear of “delaying” your career or losing control of your life if you were to focus less on work or make less money.

Look for clues that will help you resolve conflicts. Just as dreams can symbolize the struggle that is taking place within you to achieve your goals, they can also provide clues to help you triumph in waking life. Once you have recognized the conflict that is going on inside you, pay attention to how this conflict is playing out in your dreams. If you don’t win at first that’s okay, this can be representative of your subconscious trying to absorb the goals your conscious mind is sending it. But if you stay committed and make small gains, your subconscious will pick up on those gains and incorporate them into your dream.

The trick is to understand your own symbols and what your dreams are telling you. If you are on a diet and had a dream about a wolf attacking you, you may notice that the wolf always bites your right hand. Starting to eat with your left hand while awake may force you to eat more slowly, which will help you enjoy your food and make you feel full sooner, causing you to eat less. Or maybe beat the wolf by drowning it. This could mean deciding to drink water instead of eating unhealthy foods, or taking up swimming so that the exercise allows you to eat some of the foods you still like, or maybe you realize that water represents your emotions, and you eat when you’re depressed, so this awareness can help you stop comfort eating. Or you can decide that all three things are relevant! It’s up to you to recognize what your own symbols can mean to you and what is helpful.

Next week we will examine how we can ask dreams for specific help and how friends and allies in dreams can provide specific answers and guidance.

See The Dream Well for more information.

Waking up from a dream where someone you know is angry with you can make you feel a little uncomfortable. While dreams are open to interpretation, these types of dreams can still leave you wondering what it all actually means. If you sometimes dream that someone is mad at you, it may mean that they are actually mad at you. But according to dream experts, that’s usually not the case.

“The purpose of dream interpretation is to become consciously aware of something that your brain already knows, and only at the conscious level can you take steps to address the problem,” Claire Harrison, a Reiki master and certified dream interpreter, tells Bustle. “If you dream of someone being mad at you, it usually means that on a subconscious level you are angry at some aspect of yourself.”

One of the most popular theories about dreaming about other people is that the people in your dreams represent aspects of you that need to be addressed. For example, if you dream that your friend is mad at you, Lauri Loewenberg, a certified dream analyst, tells Bustle, you may be mad at yourself about that friend. You may feel guilty for not being there for them, when they needed you the most. Now this guilt is addressed in your dream.

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To dream of a friend being crazy can also represent a need to be a friend to yourself. If you’ve been pretty hard on yourself lately, your dream may be telling you to be kinder, more loving, more understanding, and more forgiving.

“It’s super important to pay attention to what you’re saying in a dream because it’s really something you’re saying to yourself,” says Loewenberg. “Dreams are a conversation with the self about yourself. Whatever is said to you should give you good and honest insight into what you are angry about.”

If you are physically fighting someone in your dream, it could mean that you are “brawling” over something that is going on in your life. The dream can be a way for you to express the anger you are feeling and to process it.

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Often dreams have no real effect on you. But when emotions like anger or fear are involved, it can affect your mood.

According to Loewenberg, anger is one of the most common emotions felt in dreams. “In my experience and research, it’s the third most common emotion in dreams — the first being frustration and the second being fear,” she says.

In general it is important to get to the root of your anger dreams as they are usually related to a problem in your waking life. Whether you dream about someone being mad at you or you are the one who is always mad, it is unhealthy to carry heavy, negative emotions around for too long. If not activated, it can leave you feeling defensive, bitter, and anxious.

If you have recurring angry dreams, it is a warning sign that something needs to be addressed. “Find out what it is and find a healthy way to process it so you can let it go,” Loewenberg says, and “your dreams will continue to torment you” until you do something about it.

Other symbols of anger that can appear in dreams are the color red, fire, attacking animals, and conflict.

How to find out what your dream is really trying to tell you

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If you dream about someone being mad at you, the first step is to find out if there really is a reason for being mad. If not, it may be a problem within yourself. To find out what the problem is, there is an exercise you can try.

According to Harrison, all you need is a pen, your journal, and about 15 minutes of quiet time. Take some time to breathe and get into a meditative state about your dream and the person in it. Once you get there, ask yourself, “When I think of this person’s impact on my life, what word comes to mind?” Write the word along with the person’s name, and then spend time analyzing what that might mean to you. For example, how does this word apply to your life? What does it mean to you personally? You can write down anything that comes to your mind.

“When you feel like you’ve completed the exercise, review what you wrote,” says Harrison. “You should be able to identify the aspect of yourself that is not serving you and the steps you can take to change it now so that it brings you joy.”

Some dreams can really linger on you. If you consistently have dreams where anger is a central theme, it’s worth looking into just in case you really need to work through something.

Experts |

Claire Harrison, Reiki Master, Certified Dream Interpreter

Lauri Loewenberg, professional dream analyst, author of Dream On It: Unlock Your Dreams, Change Your Life

Has it ever crossed your mind that when you have thoughts of someone, these could be genuine psychic signs that someone is thinking of you? Psychic signs are real, and each of us has one at one time or another. Don’t you remember her? Let me jog your memory.

Have you thought about calling a friend or loved one and then put off just for them to call you? That’s exactly what we’re talking about. Forces beyond the physical intertwine our lives. The higher your vibrations, the more synchronized you are with the universe. And when you are in sync with the universe, it begins communicating with you in otherworldly ways.

While some psychological signs are too subtle for you to notice or even understand, they are more common than you think. Often they are an indicator of how to know if someone likes you. In this post, you will discover phone psychics to help you know if someone likes you, misses you, or is thinking of you.

So relax, sit back and let us show you how many times you’ve ignored these signs.

1. There is sexual tension or sexual tension between you

When there is sexual tension or sexual tension between you and another person, chances are they will like you. Sexual tension or sexual tension is the social phenomenon that leads to sex. When two people interact and there is sexual attraction between them, there can be sexual tension.

The attraction can be mutual or from one person. But it’s not the attraction itself that creates the sexual tension. Sexual tension occurs when you fail to quench your thirst in succession and decide not to have sex. The truth is that in order for you to be sexually attracted to another person, there has to be a connection. Whether you both acknowledge it or not, there is a psychic force that binds you together.

And here’s the thing, hiding sexual tension is difficult. If you are colleagues or friends, people around you will notice it too. The good news is that you now know that this is a real psychic sign that someone is thinking of you. You just have to find out who the mysterious suitor is.

2. You constantly miss someone you love or care about

“Energy flows where attention goes.” – Hawaiian philosophy

When you miss someone, does that mean they’re thinking of you? Well, they probably are.

It seems to tell you that you miss someone, but more than that, it’s a compass for finding out if someone likes you. Chances are the person knows you miss them and can feel it. They may not know exactly why you miss them, but they will know that you are thinking of them. This is a psychological sign at work.

They radiate energy into the universe in ways that you may not be aware of. You know how you walk into a room where people have been arguing and you feel like there’s a veil of tension in the room? When you miss someone you love or care about; You get a psychic sign that they are thinking of you. Then you release directed energy at them because you are missing and thinking about them now. As they think of you, this energy often influences their thoughts and makes them think of you even more!

3. Sudden fits of sneezing

A popular psychic sign, especially in Asian culture, is the sneeze. Sneezing can be a sign that someone is thinking about you. The sneezing begins as an itchy nose before escalating into repeated sneezing sessions.

However, there are certain circumstances when you should ignore this phenomenon:

when you are sick

When you are around allergens that can trigger sneezing

If you sneeze for no good reason, it could mean that you are the focus of someone’s thoughts.

Imagine if you could say what kind of thought it is! Surprise, surprise – you can.

Sneeze twice in a row and someone might badmouth you. Sneezing three times shows that the person thinks positively about you. If you sneeze more than three times, she may be missing you or feeling sexual tension or in love with you. For believers, it’s a telltale way to know if someone likes you.

4. Red cheeks or ears as a psychological sign

Think of the feeling you get after being slapped. Your face feels tingly and slightly burning. It’s not a nice feeling, and it’s not good as a psychic sign either. While someone is thinking about you, if you are feeling this way, their thoughts may be negative. Again, it’s similar to the feeling of being slapped in the face.

Sometimes this sign that someone is thinking of you shows up as a pale, fiery feeling. However, like the sneezing, your red ears and cheeks could be for another reason. This can range from embarrassment, generally warm body temperature, or perhaps that you have overdone your blushing.

5. You get hiccups out of the blue

The reason for saying “out of the blue” is that hiccups can be caused by:

Excessive eating and drinking

Eat fast

Medical conditions such as abdominal surgery

medication

But what does it mean if you don’t have any of these underlying causes? Well, your random hiccups could be real psychic signs that someone is thinking about you. Hiccups can be annoying, so it’s no surprise that it’s a sign that someone is talking negatively about you. Is there a way to find out who is causing your hiccups?

If you’re interested, you might notice that you only get hiccups when you’re around a certain person. Or maybe even when you think about them. You thought of them because they thought of you, so that person is the culprit for the hiccups.

6. Your eye twitches or itches randomly

A random twitch or itchy eye is another real psychic sign that someone is thinking of you.

But it gets even better. While both men and women experience a sudden itching or twitching of one eye, the meaning differs depending on the eye. These twitches or itches can tell you what to tell if someone likes you or not. let me explain. When men’s right eye itches and twitches, everyone who thinks of you thinks positively. If it is the left eye, then their thoughts are negative.

In women, it’s the exact opposite—the right eye points toward negativity and the left toward positivity. However, if you have allergies that give you one or both of these sensations in your eyes, ignore this as a psychological sign. In this case consult a doctor.

7. The feeling that someone is touching you

It’s common to hear someone ask if you’ve touched them. Or to feel the feeling yourself. You turn around and there is no one near you. Does that ring? Chances are, the times you’ve felt it, you’ve ignored it and moved on.

This is one of the clearest true psychic signs that someone is thinking about you intensely. It’s the intensity with which they think of you that sends energy to mimic touch. However, this usually only happens when you miss someone or have a close connection with the person.

There’s no way to tell what thoughts a person is thinking about you, but it’s often a sexual tension. However, the touch, whether gentle or inappropriate, could be a good indicator of the type of thoughts they have about you.

8. You dream about them

A dream is a clear indicator that you are missing someone. But it’s also a sign that someone might be thinking of you too. This is especially true for people who have not seen each other for a long time. If they are actively thinking about you, it may be enough to trigger a psychic manifestation in your dreams.

Sometimes these dreams are so vivid and intense that they could indicate what the person is thinking. People have reported dreaming about someone and then meeting them the next day. But dreams are a mystery of life. They could be a warning of things to come, or they could just be a construct of your experiences. Dreams can even be the result of an active imagination.

To determine if your dream interpretation is a psychic sign, you can reach out to the person and ask how they are doing. Or just let them know you had a dream about them and see where that goes. The dream happened for a reason, so don’t just let it go.

9. Mood swings

Do your feelings sometimes change for no reason? One minute you’re happy and bubbly, and the next you’re solemn and gloomy. Another moment and you’re angry, then you feel a sudden calm wash over you. Sudden emotional changes can mean that you are the subject of someone’s thoughts. The belief is that the emotion you feel is connected to the thoughts going through the person’s mind.

While your mood swings can be annoying, chances are the feelings you’re feeling aren’t your own. But perhaps you can find solace in knowing that you are getting real psychological signs that someone is thinking of you.

10. Stress from eating is usually a psychological sign

Most of the time, it comes out of nowhere while you’re already enjoying your food. This random discomfort when eating is a psychic sign. What happens is that you feel like food is backing up in your esophagus. Swallowing becomes increasingly difficult and food does not seem to swallow as well.

Coughing and choking may then follow, although you are careful about when and how much you swallow. There is nothing ordinary about such an event. It gets even scarier when you’re trying to take every precaution to find relief and enjoy your meal.

If so, observe your surroundings and see if anyone is watching you intently. When no one is around and your body is reacting in this way, you are probably thinking of someone. It’s a real psychic sign that someone is thinking of you.

Bonus: How to know if someone likes you

Finally, it’s always good to know if someone likes you. At best, this would be the reason someone thinks of you

They do you a favor without even thinking

they mirror you

There is sexual tension or sexual tension between the two of you

or between you two. They like to use pet names with you

Ask family and friends about you

They greet you with a big hug and say, “I miss someone.”

.” They text you randomly, even when it comes to talking about mundane things

There you have it. While some of the psychological signs above may have other causes, they are usually a sign that someone cares about you. If you are not sure what otherworldly experiences mean in your life, you can always look to someone to help you gain clarity.

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Have you ever stopped for a moment and felt like someone was thinking strongly about you?

It’s a flattering and comforting thought.

There are also nefarious reasons why someone thinks of you.

Maybe someone is cursing you inside. Or have a dangerous obsession with you.

It might be far-fetched, but there’s actually a way to find out if you’re going through someone’s mind.

Deep down, each of us has a strong but underutilized connection to the world in which we live.

You may feel like someone is watching you from afar, even if you can’t see them.

Or the gut feeling when something important is about to happen.

Or the intuitive, instinctive feelings that allow us to make “lucky” guesses.

Using this sense, we can begin to understand if someone is thinking of us, even when we are physically separated.

So how do you know if someone is thinking of you?

To help you with these signs, here is a list of the top ways to tell if someone is thinking of you:

1) You get hiccups.

Accidental hiccups that appear out of the blue are considered a telepathic signal.

In fact, sudden hiccups are often associated with negative thoughts or bad speech.

That means if you start hiccupping with no explanation, someone might be thinking or talking badly about you.

The good news is that you might be able to determine who it is.

Track every time you get random hiccups and make note of who the people around you are when they occur.

If there is an ordinary person at any one time, he or she is probably the culprit for directing negative energy at you.

You can avoid them, examine them tactfully, or look for evidence before confronting them.

Remember to check for unexplained hiccups. Make sure you exclude the following:

medication

health conditions

Food in abundance

Excess drinking

eat too fast

nerve-irritating diseases

abdominal surgery

2) There is a burning sensation in your ears or your cheeks.

If you feel a burning sensation in your ears or cheeks, it may be a sign that someone is thinking about you intensely.

You don’t remember being embarrassed. You didn’t apply blush. You don’t feel particularly warm or feverish. No part of you has inflammation and the weather isn’t cold yet.

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Watch out for these telepathic signs that someone is thinking of you.

Some people believe that sudden flushing or a burning, tingly feeling is a sign someone is thinking of you — but maybe not in a good way.

It feels like the aftermath of a hard slap in the face. Her face tingles and burns with a hot flush rather than a soft flush.

The blood rushes to your cheeks or your ears and you immediately feel warm.

If you’re feeling this way, someone is definitely thinking negatively of you.

They’re likely to put you down behind your back; Instead of hitting you directly, they hit you with words.

Other people also believe that if your ears suddenly get hot, it indicates that someone has more romantic feelings for you.

And at that moment they are thinking about you passionately.

It can be difficult to distinguish between loving and hateful thoughts as they manifest in similar ways physically.

If you are confused about this, try to sense whether what you are feeling is more positive or negative. It might help you pinpoint what kind of thoughts are being thought about you.

3) A real medium confirms it.

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4) You suddenly sneeze.

One belief, particularly in Asian cultures, is that if someone thinks of you, you will sneeze repeatedly, or your nose will start to twitch and itch.

Sometimes these thoughts can also manifest as a cough that came out of nowhere, like a reflex to clear your throat.

Of course, this sign does not apply if you are ill. And make sure you’re not around pollen, mold, dust, or any other allergen that could trigger your sneeze.

If it feels like you’re suddenly going to sneeze for no apparent reason, there’s a good chance you’re on someone else’s mind. But what kind?

Tradition dictates that if it’s two consecutive sneezes, someone is thinking negatively of you.

On the other hand, three consecutive sneezes and more means positive thoughts are directed your way.

This person is likely missing you, wishing you well, or having romantic thoughts about you.

5) You get a random eye itch or twitch.

There are signs that tell you someone likes you that you might feel a random itch or twitch in your eye.

Those uncontrollable eye movements mean they are thinking of you immensely, channeling your energy as they do so.

The meaning changes depending on the eye and gender.

In men, an itchy or twitching right eye indicates positive thoughts, while an itchy or twitching left eye indicates negative thoughts.

In women, it’s the other way around: the right eye is for negative thoughts, the left eye for positive ones.

It’s important to eliminate other possible reasons your eye may be itching or twitching, such as: B. allergies, insect bites, stress, diet, sleep deprivation, fatigue or a serious eye condition.

If any of these possibilities exist, don’t overlook the need for medical attention.

6) A butterfly landed on you.

Meeting a butterfly can be a sign that someone is thinking of you.

In many cultures, butterflies are considered spiritual beings and messengers of change.

They are believed to aid in the transfer of energy from person to person, so a butterfly landing on you means someone is sending thought energies in your direction.

If you are in an area where fluttering butterflies are rare and one lands on you or approaches you, it is a powerful psychic sign from the Universe.

Butterflies symbolize change and rebirth as they morph through life in various stages of metamorphosis, the Greek word for transformation.

A butterfly landing on you portends something more mystical; Unlike other signs, butterflies are seen as a sign of a loved one who has passed away or a powerful, spiritual being.

Different colors have different meanings:

White: White is the color of purity and innocence, so many people associate it with heaven. Some people interpret the landing of white butterflies as a message from an angel or a departed loved one who is watching over you. A pure, white butterfly is a positive and hopeful sign.

Brown: Not to be confused with their fluffier, stouter moth cousins, brown butterflies are believed to be sent by people who have recently passed away but love you dearly. Seeing a brown butterfly could be a message from them to let you know they are guarding you.

Blue: Blue butterflies are rare in the wild and as such are often seen as a sign of good luck or granted wishes. Because blue butterflies have a calm, soothing presence, it can mean that when one approaches you, someone wants you to take it easy.

7) You will find a white feather.

White feathers can be interpreted as a sign that someone who is far away is thinking about you intensely.

White feathers usually appear after losing someone you cared about.

It is a touching sign of hope to see a white feather after a loved one has just passed away.

White feathers symbolize that your loved one is in a better place now and thinking of you.

When you come across a white feather, remind yourself that you can relax because they are fine, they are taking care of you and wishing them luck.

Seeing a white feather after grieving a loss is a gift from the universe that says, “All is well.”

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8) Goosebumps appear on your skin.

Feeling goosebumps racing through your body can be a sign that someone is thinking about you intensely.

Hair-raising circumstances, like remembering exciting memories, witnessing something beautiful, or experiencing something horrifying like a roller coaster ride, often give you goosebumps.

They can even appear in response to cold weather.

However, if you get goosebumps for no reason, that is a sure sign that someone is manifesting and thinking of you.

This person’s thoughts reach your subconscious as energy transmissions. It is very likely that they find you attractive or are attracted to you.

These tender thoughts translate into goosebumps and they might even experience them at the same time as you.

Although it is difficult to associate goosebumps with a specific person, the person in question may have heightened psychic abilities because of their ability to transmit clear, energetic signs.

It may be best to exercise caution when dealing with this person.

9) You feel uncomfortable eating.

If you experience severe discomfort while eating, it may be a sign that someone is very focused on you.

Imagine eating in peace. You don’t rush your meal; In fact, you chew really well and enjoy every bite.

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They enjoy the food and there really is no reason for anything bad to happen.

Suddenly you feel uncomfortable and it’s like food isn’t flowing smoothly through your esophagus.

You might even cough or choke, no matter how careful you were.

It’s not a weird accident. Feeling uncomfortable while eating could be the result of energies being projected onto you.

When someone around you experiences stress or tension, their energy affects your body, causing it to respond accordingly.

If nobody is around, then it is more likely that someone is thinking of you.

You may feel tense as you think about them, causing you to sense the tension even from afar. Negative or bad thoughts reach your subconscious telepathically.

10) There is a feeling of inexplicable physical touch.

Did you feel like you were being touched even though no one was around? This can be a startling sign that someone is thinking or talking about you, which manifests as energy vibrations.

Depending on the intensity of how that person feels towards you, their energy will be transmitted as a non-physical touch.

They can tell for themselves whether they have good or bad intentions by feeling the touch. A gentle caress is often soothing and soothing.

Sometimes it could be the soul of a loved one who has passed away unexpectedly and is trying to offer some comfort before moving on.

An uncomfortable or uncomfortable touch, on the other hand, can send sad, angry, or negative intentions to you.

In any case, you are probably connected to someone with strong telepathic abilities.

11) You feel sudden emotional swings.

If you feel a sudden emotional shift, it may be a sign that you are receiving a message from someone who is thinking of you deeply.

Emotions can be misleading, especially if you are a natural empath.

Empaths have a hard time because they constantly pick up on other people’s emotions and energies. It’s easy for an empath to get confused about the source of their feelings: is it actually theirs?

If you experience a sudden shift in emotions, they may actually belong to someone else.

Imagine you are having a bad day and suddenly enter a peaceful state of mind. You may feel a pang of sadness out of the blue, even when no one is around.

These could be the thoughts of someone emotionally connected to you.

And that could also be a reason you can’t stop thinking about someone you barely knew.

Depending on the intensity of their thoughts, they can disrupt your flow of energy and alter your emotions and make you feel insecure.

If you want to learn if the emotions are your own, it is important to first get in touch with your inner being.

You need to be more aware of your emotions and how they connect to the energy inside and outside of you.

A clear baseline can guide you to accept or reject unexplained feelings that arise.

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12) Synchronicities occur.

Have you ever found yourself thinking about someone and getting a call or text from them later in the day? This can be a strong sign that someone is thinking about you a lot.

Or maybe they were on your mind while shopping and you suddenly come across them.

If you often hear “I was only thinking of you!” Incidents with people who have not seen you for a long time is probably not accidental.

Most likely, your premonition and intuition were at work, so your thoughts drew them to you. The opposite can also happen.

When you run into someone you haven’t seen out of the blue in a while, chances are you’ve thought of them beforehand.

13) You have dream contact with the person.

In dreams, people are more open to telepathic connections. Because you are relaxed and rested, you are not actively protecting yourself from energies trying to contact you.

However, dreams are usually a mystery to us. They could signal a special encounter, a warning of things to come, or impending changes.

Sometimes dreams are just a construct of our own experiences or an active imagination.

Focusing on your dreams might give you a clue.

Intense and vivid dreams in which you keep meeting the same person may indicate that someone is thinking of you.

Maybe they miss you and are actively thinking about you. This can trigger a psychic manifestation in your dreams, which is received by your subconscious to connect you with that person.

If you want to check that out, try reaching out to your dream visitor and asking how they are doing. These things happen for a reason, so maybe you shouldn’t let the opportunity pass you by.

14) There is tension in your head.

If you feel a lot of physical tension in your mind, it could be that someone else is focusing intensely on you.

You might also ask yourself, “How do you know if you like someone?”

The rather unexplored human mind has limitless power and is difficult to set limits on. Think about how many ideas, solutions and thoughts are processed by your brain every day.

So when something suddenly happens to your mind — like moments when you can’t focus or your mind feels like it’s everywhere — there’s a good chance someone out there is thinking about you and trying to communicate with you subconsciously .

This tension can also show itself as a physical reaction.

Maybe you’re drinking water and it suddenly “went down the wrong pipe,” or you’re slowly eating but end up choking on the food.

Your mind creates this tension because it can sense your name coming out of someone else’s mouth.

It wants you to be alert and careful about your surroundings.

If there is no reason why something is happening, then why did it happen to you?

The best possible explanation is that the negative energy impacted your mind like a slap in the face from afar.

15) You feel a surge of energy.

Have you ever experienced a sudden rush of uplifting energy? Or a motivation boost? It can also be a sign that someone is thinking about you a lot.

The human mind is a truly remarkable instrument capable of sensing negative energy and bad-mouthing.

You don’t really need to see someone talking about you behind your back. Sometimes you can just feel it and it feels bad.

The same is true when the mind senses that someone loves and supports us, even if we are miles apart. By paying attention, you become aware of the telepathic signs that this person is falling in love with you.

In such cases, you might feel a sudden surge of energy when someone thinks positively about you.

It may have been transmitted because they are thinking of you lovingly and wishing you well, like a switch that takes you from being down and depressed to someone more alive and alive.

It’s possible that someone else’s kind thoughts may have made you feel better. And it could also be someone thinking about you sexually.

Deeply connected couples can sense this phenomenon as they elevate each other’s energy and overall feelings.

In more intense situations, they may even be able to send physical sensations through their mind to tell their partner that they are thinking of them.

It can feel like a fleeting touch on a cheek or a comforting pat on the back.

Open your mind to possibilities

Few people truly believe in telepathic phenomena and energetic transmissions.

It’s totally fine if you don’t believe in it either.

However, there is much that we do not understand about the mind and the universe.

One thing is for sure – our minds can be powerful tools, while the human mind can be a gateway to extraordinary things. Our thoughts inform and create the way we perceive the world around us.

So, if something strange suddenly happens to you and you think someone else’s thoughts are infiltrating your brain, the best thing to do is just send back positive vibes.

Can that really do any harm?

If it’s something that resonates with you and gives you a stronger sense of connection, then feel free to try.

The harm can come from doing something because someone else tells you to.

It is important to ensure that all character interpretations, techniques and suggested methods of exploring your inner and outer world feel authentic to you.

If you’re doing it because you want a specific outcome or because someone else is telling you it’s the truth, proceed with caution.

Even well-meaning advisors, gurus and experts can be wrong.

The result is that you end up achieving the opposite of what you are looking for. You pin your hopes high on certain expectations and then experience even more disappointments.

They do more to harm themselves than to heal.

In this insightful video, shaman Rudá Iandé explains how so many of us can fall into the toxic trap of spirituality.

He himself went through a similar experience at the beginning of his journey.

As he mentions in the video, spirituality should be about empowering yourself. It’s not about manipulating others, suppressing emotions, or judging others, it’s about establishing a pure connection to who you are at your core.

If you want to achieve this, click here to watch the free video.

Even if you’re well advanced in your spiritual journey, it’s never too late to take a deeper, critical look and reality check into the myths you bought for the truth.

Remember that the most important signal you have is your own judgment.

It is important to tune into and connect with this most authentic part of you.

It is important to live your glorious life. It’s the only one you have.

Intro Ever since I became aware of what dreams are at the age of 3 or 4, I can remember my dreams almost every day without exception. While some dreams fade after a day or so, I can recall many months or years later. I assumed everyone could, too, until my senior year of high school when we did a dream unit in psychology class. Teacher asked us to raise our hand if we could remember our dreams every morning when we wake up. In a class of over 20 students, I was one of only two people to raise their hand. I was shocked. Up until then I had believed all my life that everyone else would remember their dreams too. It turns out that this is not the case for most people. This made me wonder why I could remember my dreams when others couldn’t? Was that good or bad? Did that mean I didn’t sleep well? These questions about dreaming lingered years later, when I was well into my twenties. So I finally decided to investigate.

Why We Dream Let’s start with why and when we dream. Dreaming usually takes place during REM sleep, which can occur several times a night. This stage of sleep is characterized by rapid eye movement (which is what REM stands for), increased body movement, and faster breathing. Mike Kisch, co-founder and CEO of Beddr, a sleep technology start-up, tells Healthline that dreaming tends to occur during this time because our brainwave activity is more similar to when we’re awake. This phase usually starts about 90 minutes after falling asleep and can last up to an hour towards the end of sleep. “Whether you remember it or not, all people dream in their sleep. It is an essential function for the human brain and is also present in most species,” says Dr. Alex Dimitriu, dual board specialist in psychiatry and sleep medicine and founder of Menlo Park Psychiatry & Sleep Medicine, to Healthline. So if everyone dreams, why don’t we all remember it? This answer may vary depending on which theory of why people dream you want to follow, as there are quite a few. Dream research is a vast and complex field, and dreaming can be difficult to study in a laboratory. This is partly because brain activity cannot tell us anything about the content of dreams and you have to rely on subjective reports from people.

Memories of Dreams “While some have suggested that dreams are a window into the subconscious, other theories postulate that dreams are a nonsensical result of the activities that take place during sleep that rebuild our brains,” Dr. Sujay Kansagra, sleep health expert at Mattress Firm, tells Healthline. “And if our need to dream is an indication that the brain is participating in a recovery process, our inability to recall our dreams may simply be due to the sorting of essential and non-essential information during sleep.” Basically, this lays The theory suggests that dreams occur when our brain is processing information, eliminating unnecessary stuff, and shifting important short-term memories to our long-term memory. People who remember dreams may have a difference in their ability to remember things in general. In addition, a person’s brain can actually block a dream so that we don’t remember it the next day. “Dream activity can be so real and intense that our brain actually hides or masks the dream so [it] doesn’t get lost between our waking experience and our dream life. So it’s normal to forget dreams most of the time,” says Dimitriu. Have you ever had one of those dreams that are so realistic that you are unsure if the events really happened? It’s really disturbing and strange, isn’t it? So in this case, our brain can help us forget so that we are better able to tell the difference between our dream world and the real world. On the other hand, brain activity can also allow someone to remember their dream more easily. “There’s a region in your brain called the temporoparietal junction that processes information and emotions. This region can also put you in a waking state during sleep, which in turn allows your brain to better encode and remember dreams,” explains Julie Lambert, board-certified sleep expert. A study published in the journal Neuropsychopharmacology and reported by the International Business Times suggested that people who reported high dream recall had more activity in the temporoparietal junction than those who did not recall their dreams often.

Why Some People Remember and Others Forget Lambert tells Healthline that when someone consistently doesn’t get enough sleep, their amount of REM sleep goes down, making it harder for them to remember their dreams the next day. Even personality traits can be an indicator of whether someone can remember their dreams. Lambert continues: “The researchers also looked at the most common personality traits of people who can remember their dreams. Overall, such people are prone to daydreaming, creative thinking, and introspection. At the same time, those who are more practical and focused on the outside have trouble remembering their dreams.” This may mean that some people are inherently more likely to remember their dreams than others, despite the quality of their sleep. Other factors, such as stress or experiencing trauma, can also cause people to have vivid dreams or nightmares that are more likely to be remembered the next day. For example, a person coping with grief after losing a loved one may dream of death in great detail. Remembering the dream the next day can affect mood and cause even more stress or anxiety. As a writer who is constantly daydreaming and focused on introspection, this doesn’t surprise me. In fact, as I’ve grown, the way I view my dreams has evolved itself. For most of my childhood I watched myself in the third person, almost like a movie. Then one day I started experiencing the dreams with my own eyes and it never came back. Sometimes my dreams build on each other, even expanding the dream of an earlier event into a current one. This could be a sign that my brain keeps telling stories while I sleep.

If you’re dreaming about someone you’re not friends with or haven’t seen in a long time, chances are you’ll wake up confused. Dreaming about someone from your past can make you wonder if you should reconnect with that person or what it even means when they invade your nightly thoughts. But in reality, a dream about someone you no longer speak to isn’t really about the ghosts of your past – it has more to do with yourself.

Read more: What do dreams about cats mean? Here’s what experts say

It’s actually common to dream about people who are in your life right now. Theresa Cheung, the author of The Dream Dictionary From A To Z, previously wrote for Bustle, “Friends usually play an important role in your life, so they will naturally meet you and you will meet them again and again in your dreams.” If you appearing in other people’s dreams, it feels good to know they are thinking of you.According to Jungian dream interpretation, the people who appear in dreams reflect your inner workings and aspects of your own personality.

It can be distressing when the ghost of someone you no longer speak to reappears in a dream for many reasons, especially if you have stopped speaking for painful reasons. Having occasional dreams about people from your past that you haven’t seen or even thought about in a long time can cause you to spiral into rethinking. “Notice about dreams that everything and everyone in your dream represents a part of you or something that affects you directly,” professional dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells Bustle. “Besides, if you dream about a person you haven’t seen in ages, or someone you don’t interact with on a daily basis, or someone who doesn’t even really exist, they become a part of you represent personality.”

Dreaming about other people can be a way for you to better understand yourself and your behavior. If there is something that needs to be worked through and addressed in your waking life, it may show up in your dream in some way. Often it will show up in the form of a person in your past or present, even if you are no longer friends. Before you jump to conclusions, here’s what dream experts have to say.

What it means when you dream about someone you no longer speak to

Many people will dream of old friends and classmates from elementary school days. It can be a little strange, especially if you haven’t seen or heard from a certain person in years. Does that mean you should hurry to get in touch with them again? According to Cheung, no. “Their appearance in your dream scene is a metaphor for a neglected or forgotten aspect of yourself that you would like to reconnect with or benefit from reconnecting with,” she wrote. Think about the person you once knew and the qualities they have that stand out to you the most. According to Loewenberg, that outstanding quality or flaw is a trait that you can have or want.

“There was a time when I would have daydreams about this third-grade boy named Jeff,” says Loewenberg. “I don’t remember his last name, but I do remember that he was the shyest person I’ve ever known. I realized that when I wasn’t talking about something in real life, he appeared in my dreams… on something I had to do. My subconscious said to me, ‘Well, you might as well just be Jeff.'” Maybe there are qualities in that person that you either wish you had more or less of in your life. To recognize that within yourself , is the first step when you wake up — not reaching for Facebook to see what they’re up to.

It doesn’t matter how the person is now. They appear in your dream so that you can pay attention to something important that needs to be addressed in your life at the moment. Studies show that your dream consciousness is very similar to your waking consciousness. So if you are dreaming about someone you no longer speak to, it indicates daily emotions that you are currently feeling (and may need to process). In some cases, there may still be something unresolved with the person who is no longer in your life, or with yourself that you need to deal with.

You should also pay attention to how people from your past are behaving in your dream. For example, are they helping you or are they angry? According to Loewenberg, how you behave in dreams is directly related to how part of you is behaving in real life. “They show you this behavior from a different perspective so you can understand yourself better,” she says. Analyzing the dream and turning it into your own life is a method to get to the root of what has been bothering you lately.

People will appear in your dreams randomly for all sorts of reasons. If you’re interested in astrology, Joy Strong, a transformational life coach and professional dream analyst, tells Bustle that planetary declines can stimulate unconscious thoughts from the past to resurface.

“It’s important to remember that just because someone pops up in your consciousness doesn’t dictate whether or not they should have a current role in your life,” says Strong. This is important if you’re dreaming about an ex you haven’t thought about for a while and are wondering if you should reach out. If you stop speaking to that person, there is probably a very good reason, and remembering it is key to inner peace.

Dreams say more about you than the people in them. So if you are dreaming about someone from your past or present, think about what they might represent in your own life. If they appear in your dream, there is something to pay attention to.

Additional reporting by Marianne Eloise

Referenced Studies:

Franklin, MS (2005). The Role of Dreams in the Evolution of the Human Mind, Sage Journals, https://doi.org/10.1177/147470490500300106.

Nir Y (2010) Dreaming and the brain: from phenomenology to neurophysiology, Trends Cogn Sci., https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2814941/.

Questioned sources:

Lauri Loewenberg, dream expert, author of Dream on It, Unlock Your Dreams Change Your Life

Joy Strong, Transformational Life Coach and Professional Dream Analyst

Does dreaming about someone you like signify a mystical connection or is it just counted as a creative illusion? Let’s find out what it means to dream about someone by going through the article below.

The hardest thing about dreaming about someone you love is waking up. ~ Anonymous

Dreams are a fragment of our imagination. They give us a space for our creativity that most of us seem to lack in our daily lives. We are the masters of our dreams and can paint our world in black and white or Technicolor while we sleep. They help us answer the deepest questions buried in our subconscious and face the greatest fears of our lives. Many people claim that their dreams helped them find a solution to their problem and create one of the greatest success stories in the world. These stories and many myths surrounding dreams make one wonder what it means to dream about someone. You can uncover the mysteries of your dream by reading through the explanation below.

I think I like you!

Have you ever caught yourself constantly daydreaming about someone you like? Well, I’ve found myself guilty of this dreamy act many times. This made me ask myself, “Am I going crazy or does my dream mean something?” One thing is for sure, you are not going crazy and your dreams of someone you like mean only one thing. And that one thing is nothing but an infatuation or fascination. Your mind thinks about the person you like all day long. So when you go to sleep, your mind only remembers the one thought in your head all day. This is how you keep dreaming about someone you like, even when you are asleep. For example, you might have a crush on the handsomest boy on your school’s basketball team. You see him at school and maybe you study in the same class.

The constant sighs every time you manage to catch a glimpse of him and all sorts of tricks to get his attention show that you are head over heels in love with this boy. When you’re asleep, the last thought in your mind isn’t about the school test the next day, but about managing to get his attention, at least for a moment. It makes you dream and fulfill all your innermost desires related to this cute boy. The solution: gather courage and approach the guy. Tell him all about your feelings and you never know, maybe he dreams about you all the time too. And if you can’t, then all you can do is keep dreaming.

I love you right?

Love is an intoxicating feeling. It fills your mind, heart and soul with the thoughts of the person you love. There is nothing sweeter than love in life and you tend to find everything around you meaningless when the person you love is not with you. So if you dream about someone you love, it means that you really love them. However, there is a fine line between true love and obsessive love. Constantly dreaming about someone you love can be a sign that you are not giving yourself and the other person the space they need to live your life. You will become obsessed with the person and very soon this will lead to many complications in your life.

It is good to dream about someone you love, but turning it into an obsession indicates possessiveness. You need to get a grip on yourself and give yourself and the person you love a breather. Only then will your relationship be a greater success than it already is. Make sure you know that the deep feelings you have for the person are actually love and not just an obsession. If you still haven’t expressed your feelings towards the person you love, go ahead and spill the beans. Once you get together, the dreams you had will finally get a chance to become a reality.

I can not forget you!

Many times after you have had a breakup, breakup, divorce or lost touch with someone you once liked, you may have dreams about them. It may surprise you because you feel like you don’t have feelings for her anymore. But somewhere, in the deepest valleys of your subconscious, you still have feelings for her. These suppressed feelings usually appear when you are in deep sleep. These dreams indicate that you may not have gotten over them yet and still harbor some feelings for the person.

In some cases where a person goes through a lot of trauma and abuse over the course of the relationship, one starts dreaming about the person they liked. Your mind still reflects the image of the person you liked. The relationship hasn’t turned out the way you imagined, but in your dreams you’re still stuck in the past. Or maybe you never managed to express your feelings towards the person and you still have the same feelings towards the person. These feelings surface as a fragment of your imagination in your dreams.

Dreaming about someone you like just means you want to be with that person. Call it attraction, infatuation, fascination, love or anything else. You secretly hope to be with and spend time with the person you like. Dreams help us uncover life’s mysteries and may even have tomorrow’s answers today. It’s your world, enjoy it to the fullest and hope that it will become a reality soon.

How many times do you wake up from a dream where you are involved in a fight? Do you see people fighting or are you the one fighting? Sometimes these fights can scare you or do nothing because you don’t know what it means.

But no worry. Here we will cover all about ten meanings of dream fight.

In any dream, fighting will always disturb your peace. You have to know that it is a form of connection with your spirit.

Sometimes you can’t remember what you saw in the dream fight. But some other dream fights will stick in your memory.

So are you ready for this? Here are the eleven interpretations of dream fights.

1. Dreaming about being in a fight

You can fight with someone or many people in your dream. It means that there are things that you still doubt about your life.

Also, it shows that your emotions are out of balance. The battle will be between your heart and your mind. So there you will not have inner peace in your life.

But what can you do? You should sit back and think about the most important decisions you have to make in your life.

If you quarrel with people only in your dreams, it shows that you always have a hard time looking for solutions to your problems. Remember that the people you are arguing or fighting with in your dreams represent the issues surrounding your life at the moment.

Sometimes you can be in a fight with violence. That should be a clear warning to you. So, this means that you should be careful while looking for solutions to the warning.

The best step when you have dreams about fighting other people is to observe people in your life. Couldn’t you do it in a hurry? Yes, it is one of the best ways to bring peace into your life.

2. Seeing a fight in your dream

If you see people fighting in your dream, you should worry less. In these cases, you just watch the factions fight, but do nothing.

If you see such a fight in your dream, it means that your spirit is telling you that you have to make a decision on a certain matter. This action mostly occurs when you saw something wrong and did nothing about it. Know that the conflict is much closer to you.

If you remember the problem and it’s over, please take good action if it happens again. You should take the right actions when you realize something is wrong. By doing this action you will avoid seeing people fighting in your dream.

Remember, every dream helps you see what is affecting you in real life. If you see people fighting in your dream, it means that you should listen to them. It will bring peace.

Such a dream fight can also speak to your mind to avoid conflicts always. If you choose to support people or help them make peace, it should go without saying.

3. Dream about fighting family members

Yes, you can dream that you are fighting against one of your family members. Also, you can see them fighting each other in your dream. Such a family dream fight should scare you.

If you dream about fighting your mother, then it is about you and your feelings. The answer will be that you are always angry and you lack patience. It would be best if you controlled your anger and your emotions.

If you are the one who started the argument between you and your mother, it also means that you are not acting friendly. So you should be careful not to make a mistake by hurting people you love.

But sometimes you may have already hurt her. Know that it’s never too late to start again.

Remember, if it is your mother who started the argument with you, be careful and vigilant. But treat family members with love.

If in the dreams you happen to be arguing with your father, it means that you will find it difficult to achieve your goals in life. So if you don’t finish the fight in your dreams, it can be difficult to achieve your goals. But if you finish the fight, your path to success will be clear.

Her father represents goals in the dream. So if you hit him in your dream, it shows that you want his permission.

But if your father hits you first, it shows that you have no connection with him. You have to be very focused on yourself.

Fighting your brother or sister shows that you have emotional problems. Well, that’s because siblings make best friends with a lot of ease. Such a dream tells you that you need to be prepared for anything because something is wrong.

Remember, you will see your family fighting in a dream; it means you have family problems. This dream represents an easy transition for you.

4. Dreaming about a couple arguing

You can see a couple, you know how they fight. Sometimes you may not be the couple.

The dream means that the couple’s relationship needs healing. It shows that the zest for life in the partnership is low. So the couple should consider how to bring life into the marriage.

Be careful when you see a couple fighting. It means there are two things about it. There will be a fine line between resolving the conflict and invading her privacy.

So as soon as you wake up, try to bring people together, but be careful not to break the peace with them. Remember that you should bring peace to her call.

Sometimes such a fight can never mean only internal problems. Thus, it will be safe to deal with any problems that come into the relationship.

Even if you fight with your partner, it means that you have things that you should work out with her. When your marriage is in deep trouble in real life, you need to look at the problems very quickly. It shows why when you see yourself fighting in a dream you want to get rid of your anger by starting a fight.

5. Dreaming about fighting with your partner

When you argue with your girlfriend or boyfriend, it shows you the problems you have with him or her. So it should warn you. You should both take your time and work through the issues you are facing as a couple.

Also, both of you should prepare yourself to face other issues in your relationship. That is because this dream is from a painful situation. So you should both sit down and talk about these issues.

But if it can’t solve the problems, you can end the relationship. Sometimes you will see that the dream of you fighting together keeps coming back. So it would be helpful if you are looking for someone who you think will make you happier.

6. Dream about fighting with your close friend

This dream can disturb you between all the dream fights. It comes with many meanings that may not seem good to you.

Such a dream could mean that you are about to lose something you love. It could also tell you that you are about to lose someone important in your life.

The best step is to treat everyone you love with a lot of care. These people can be your best friend, a close friend, or a family member. In return, expect them to appreciate and love you too.

But what if the people you love don’t do the same for you? Prepare your mind and soul to know that these people will no longer be a part of your life.

Also, dreams about fighting a close friend can mean that you are hurt. So things may not favor you at this moment in life.

The solution is to first investigate what is causing the injury in you. After that, be wise and run after your happiness.

7. Dreaming that you are fighting a child or a woman

You can dream that you are fighting a child or a woman. These are people who are considered modest in society. Therefore, if you fight them in a dream, you will regret it.

If you are an adult and you dream of fighting a child, it means that you have no conscience. You should then sit back and think about the damage you caused and then change it.

It could be something you did recently or a while ago. In any case, change your behavior for the benefit of the future.

Again, fighting a woman never bodes well. If you’re not fighting, it means you care more about other people’s lives than yours.

Plus, it means you always blame the people around you for being too harsh. So your mind will tell you to focus more on your life.

8. Dream fights against your pet

Pets are always friendly with lots of love. It means that there is no good in fighting a pet.

Take for example when you dream of yourself in a fight with a dog. This dream shows that you are having friction with someone in your home or place of work. But don’t let fear consume you.

Remember that dogs or other pets that you keep at home will always obey you and be kind to you. But once you engage in a fight with them, they turn violent to win the fight.

So if you look back on your life and realize you have an issue with someone at work, please resolve the issue quickly. Also remember that if you ignore these little things, they will affect your performance at work.

The same should be in your home too, solve the problem soon. Just like the relationship with your pet, it’s good to have a healthy space both at home and at work.

9. Dreams of two fighting animals

Sometimes you see two or even more animals fighting. Your ghost will tell you that when two of your friends are fighting, you have important decisions to make.

Everyone has power over animals and plants. So if you see two animals fighting, your job is to separate them to avoid getting hurt.

When connecting it with real life, seeing such a dream should tell you that you should not risk the relationship with your two friends. It means you shouldn’t take sides.

So if you have friends who are constantly fighting or have a grudge, talk to them. Also tell them that you are not happy if they fight all the time. They can help in keeping the peace between the two people.

10. Dreaming about killing people while fighting

If you dream that you are killing people in a dream, it is okay if you get scared. Things seem to be the opposite. This dream should give you hope.

It shows that you are almost overcoming the problems you are facing in life. They will have gone through the steps of accepting instead of denying that everything was bad.

It should also bring more inner peace into your life. Remember, it comes from the fact that you got victory after killing someone during the fight.

But if you see blood during such fights, even if you achieve victory, it shows that you trust people too much. Someone can take this chance to hurt you and cause more problems in your life.

These dreams also show you that you are angry with someone. So it would be best to open up to the person in an excellent way to avoid bad results.

11. Dreaming about you dying in a fight or battle

Sometimes you can dream that you die in a battle. Then next you will wake up very quickly. This is because you would have seen your death in a dream.

But it shouldn’t scare you that much. It doesn’t mean you’re going to die soon. This dream represents that you have a problem that makes you deny.

Remember, such things can harm you. Change the way you deal with your problems.

So don’t be afraid to face your problems. In the end you will win

Conclusion

No doubt the dream match will create tension. Such dreams come from the problems you are having in your everyday life.

These dreams speak a great message to us. If you can take the message seriously, you will lead a peaceful life. But if you choose to ignore the signs, things will not be good for you.

But to avoid dream fights happening in your sleep every time, make sure you solve the issues in your waking life. Remember that these problems can appear in your life or in the lives of other people.

Did you have other dream fights that were difficult to interpret? did it scare you Please share your thoughts with us.

If you’re dreaming about someone you’re not friends with or haven’t seen in a long time, chances are you’ll wake up confused. Dreaming about someone from your past can make you wonder if you should reconnect with that person or what it even means when they invade your nightly thoughts. But in reality, a dream about someone you no longer speak to isn’t really about the ghosts of your past – it has more to do with yourself.

Read more: What do dreams about cats mean? Here’s what experts say

It’s actually common to dream about people who are in your life right now. Theresa Cheung, the author of The Dream Dictionary From A To Z, previously wrote for Bustle, “Friends usually play an important role in your life, so they will naturally meet you and you will meet them again and again in your dreams.” If you appearing in other people’s dreams, it feels good to know they are thinking of you.According to Jungian dream interpretation, the people who appear in dreams reflect your inner workings and aspects of your own personality.

It can be distressing when the ghost of someone you no longer speak to reappears in a dream for many reasons, especially if you have stopped speaking for painful reasons. Having occasional dreams about people from your past that you haven’t seen or even thought about in a long time can cause you to spiral into rethinking. “Notice about dreams that everything and everyone in your dream represents a part of you or something that affects you directly,” professional dream analyst Lauri Loewenberg tells Bustle. “Besides, if you dream about a person you haven’t seen in ages, or someone you don’t interact with on a daily basis, or someone who doesn’t even really exist, they become a part of you represent personality.”

Dreaming about other people can be a way for you to better understand yourself and your behavior. If there is something that needs to be worked through and addressed in your waking life, it may show up in your dream in some way. Often it will show up in the form of a person in your past or present, even if you are no longer friends. Before you jump to conclusions, here’s what dream experts have to say.

What it means when you dream about someone you no longer speak to

Many people will dream of old friends and classmates from elementary school days. It can be a little strange, especially if you haven’t seen or heard from a certain person in years. Does that mean you should hurry to get in touch with them again? According to Cheung, no. “Their appearance in your dream scene is a metaphor for a neglected or forgotten aspect of yourself that you would like to reconnect with or benefit from reconnecting with,” she wrote. Think about the person you once knew and the qualities they have that stand out to you the most. According to Loewenberg, that outstanding quality or flaw is a trait that you can have or want.

“There was a time when I would have daydreams about this third-grade boy named Jeff,” says Loewenberg. “I don’t remember his last name, but I do remember that he was the shyest person I’ve ever known. I realized that when I wasn’t talking about something in real life, he appeared in my dreams… on something I had to do. My subconscious said to me, ‘Well, you might as well just be Jeff.'” Maybe there are qualities in that person that you either wish you had more or less of in your life. To recognize that within yourself , is the first step when you wake up — not reaching for Facebook to see what they’re up to.

It doesn’t matter how the person is now. They appear in your dream so that you can pay attention to something important that needs to be addressed in your life at the moment. Studies show that your dream consciousness is very similar to your waking consciousness. So if you are dreaming about someone you no longer speak to, it indicates daily emotions that you are currently feeling (and may need to process). In some cases, there may still be something unresolved with the person who is no longer in your life, or with yourself that you need to deal with.

You should also pay attention to how people from your past are behaving in your dream. For example, are they helping you or are they angry? According to Loewenberg, how you behave in dreams is directly related to how part of you is behaving in real life. “They show you this behavior from a different perspective so you can understand yourself better,” she says. Analyzing the dream and turning it into your own life is a method to get to the root of what has been bothering you lately.

People will appear in your dreams randomly for all sorts of reasons. If you’re interested in astrology, Joy Strong, a transformational life coach and professional dream analyst, tells Bustle that planetary declines can stimulate unconscious thoughts from the past to resurface.

“It’s important to remember that just because someone pops up in your consciousness doesn’t dictate whether or not they should have a current role in your life,” says Strong. This is important if you’re dreaming about an ex you haven’t thought about for a while and are wondering if you should reach out. If you stop speaking to that person, there is probably a very good reason, and remembering it is key to inner peace.

Dreams say more about you than the people in them. So if you are dreaming about someone from your past or present, think about what they might represent in your own life. If they appear in your dream, there is something to pay attention to.

Additional reporting by Marianne Eloise

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Lauri Loewenberg, dream expert, author of Dream on It, Unlock Your Dreams Change Your Life

Joy Strong, Transformational Life Coach and Professional Dream Analyst

Have you ever woken up scared after dreaming about ex-partner? The good news is that you are not alone, which means dream experts have had plenty of opportunities to analyze what dreaming about an ex could mean — and no, it’s not necessarily a sign that the two of you should get back together . (Even if you dream of having sex with them!)

“Dreaming about an ex is very common, especially if there’s been a recent breakup,” says Lauri Loewenberg, a certified dream analyst who has analyzed and researched over 75,000 dreams of people around the world. “In these cases, the subconscious is trying to help us process the end of the relationship.”

Don’t panic if you’re dreaming about your high school sweetheart; It is also normal to dream about someone you dated years ago.

“Everything in a dream is there for a reason, to convey a message to you, from you, about you, to improve you,” says Loewenberg. “And although there may be elements in your dream from your distant past (e.g. an ex), there is something in the subconscious that is relevant to you now.”

Whether you have had dreams about having sex with an ex or something else with a person you used to date, know that these dreams are totally normal. Here are eight of the most common dreams people have about their ex, and what they might mean, according to Loewenberg.

A dream in which you break into your ex’s house

This usually happens shortly after a breakup, especially if you are the dumpee and not the one who caused the dumping. This dream is a sign that your brain is trying to find some closure.

“The ex’s home represents their psyche and personality construct,” says Loewenberg. “Breaking in suggests you’re trying to get into their mindset and understand their reasoning.”

A dream in which your ex dies

“If it’s a recent ex, this dream means the ex is no longer ‘living’ rent-free in your psyche,” says Loewenberg. They are no longer an issue for you, and of course you have moved on. “If it’s a past ex, ask yourself what you remember most about that person or your time with them. Does any of this seem relevant or similar to you or your life right now? And if so, does it seem less present now?”

For example, maybe this ex was particularly controlling. In this case, dreaming of them dying would indicate that a current restrictive part of your own life is easing. “Remember, every time the subconscious brings up the past, it’s because there’s something in your present that seems similar to that past event or person.”

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A dream in which you murder your ex

Don’t worry, that doesn’t mean you harbor any secret violent tendencies! “While death in a dream often signifies a natural change or ending in your life or within you, murder can mean a change or ending being forced, just as murder is a forced death.”

If in a dream you murder a recent ex, you are probably actively trying to sever all ties with that person. Maybe in waking life you were deleting messages and contact information or throwing away all the stuff they left on you; You worked to “kill” the influence your ex had on you, Loewenberg explains.

“Murdering an ex long ago would probably indicate that you are intentionally quitting or making a change in yourself, and that particular ex represents what you are changing,” she says. “Did a certain behavior or mindset start when you were with them? Maybe they represent a ‘guy’ that you keep getting involved with and are now trying to avoid.” Basically, this dream is a sign of progress!

A dream of your first love

“This is the ex we dream about the most, and it’s also a good example of how almost everything in our dreams is a part of who we are,” says Loewenberg. When we fall in love, we feel alive! Life is exciting and we feel good. We carry around with us one longing for the other and want to spend all our time with him. “These are very powerful feelings and the first person that pulls them out of us, well, their image is imprinted on our psyche, and they will forever be the embodiment of all that hot, burning desire that’s still alive and well within us.” is.”

If you’re dreaming of your first love a few years later, it’s not necessarily because you’re still pining for her — it could be because you remember the passion you felt.

“Your subconscious might be comparing your life then to now,” says Loewenberg. “Are you on a dry spell? Is your current relationship lacking spice? Whatever the case, your subconscious is telling you it’s time to either rekindle the flame in your current relationship or find something that can bring the same kind of excitement into your life.”

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A dream about an abusive or cheating ex

“If the abusive or cheating ex keeps appearing in your dreams, it’s a strong sign that you haven’t been able to let go of the suspicion, anger, and resentment they’ve created,” says Loewenberg. Remember, it’s not about the ex anymore, it’s about what’s left in you since he was in your life. “These dreams can act as a warning that you may be bringing all of these negative feelings into your current relationship, which isn’t fair to either of you.”

A dream in which you and your ex are arguing

Any type of conflict in a dream—be it an argument, a fistfight, or a gunfight—will be linked to an actual conflict in your waking life, Loewenberg explains. “So if you have a dream about having a fight with a recent ex, it may mean that you are fighting with yourself about this relationship,” she says. If it’s a verbal argument, pay very close attention to what’s being said, as it reveals a lot about your current state of mind.”

If you have a fight with an ex from a long time, it will most likely reflect a current internal conflict, so it is your job to find out what conflict this ex represents. What do you remember most about this ex? How would you describe this relationship? How were you when you were with this person? “Something from back then resembles something in your life now, and your subconscious isn’t particularly happy about it,” explains Loewenberg.

A dream in which your ex is pregnant with your child

Don’t freak out; Pregnancy dreams with an ex are usually positive. “Most of the time, it means you learned something from that relationship, and that lesson — that wisdom — is what’s growing in your life now,” says Loewenberg. “But if you’re dreaming of a recent ex, it’s also worth checking to see if there are any issues or effects that may be nesting and growing.”

A dream in which you have sex with your ex

Ah, the classic sex-with-your-ex dream! By now you should know that this dream does not mean that you want to get back together with them or that you secretly crave their love and attention. These dreams are rarely about the ex, says Loewenberg. “They are more about what they represent: love, excitement, passion, being desired.”

That’s why she recommends analyzing what’s going on in your waking life to see what sparks are missing. Maybe you’re single and going through a dry spell, or your current relationship is lacking. This dream is telling you that you need to spice up your current love life.

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Life is always changing. And even if you live in the same house you grew up in, you lose touch with friends and neighbors who have moved away. Thanks to Facebook and social media, you can meet and follow old school friends. But what does it mean when you dream about an old friend you haven’t seen in years? Let’s look at some possible interpretations.

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1. Longing for childhood

When we were kids, we just wanted to grow up. And the adults around us kept warning us to slow down and enjoy our childhood. Of course we didn’t listen because we were in a hurry to do what we wanted. For us, adulthood means freedom and fun.

But what does it mean when you dream about a childhood friend? It means you long for the innocence of youth. You didn’t see the value in it when you were young, but everything seems easier as an adult back then. Growing up weighs you down and you want out!

2. Lack of certain feelings

Some of us are so blessed that we see our old friends regularly. So when we dream about them, it may be a practical rather than a spiritual dream. But what does it mean when you dream about an old friend you haven’t seen in a while? First, describe your friend in three words.

These are probably the qualities that you subconsciously associate with your boyfriend. So, the dream could mean that you lack these qualities. You want to see more of them in yourself and others around you. Ask your angels what steps you can take to nurture these traits.

3. Overwork and burnout

We addressed the longing for the innocence and pleasure of childhood. But sometimes, dreaming about an old friend sends a more specific message about your work life. What have you been doing with this old friend over the years? You were probably playing, having fun, or just hanging out.

So, to dream about this friend means that you are longing for times when the pressures in life were less. This dream does not necessarily mean that you should call this friend. But it means you’re overwhelmed at work and need to take some time to rest, so ask for a few days off.

4. Grow up!

So far we have looked at two interpretations that tell of childhood nostalgia. But sometimes dreaming about old friends sends the opposite message. Your dream could be a sign from your guides that you are too childish and need to develop a mature attitude.

In the same way that people resent the concept of growing up, our elders want us to stop whining and just grow up. So if you dream about old friends, especially your peers who somehow seem more mature than you, you may have an inner desire to connect.

5. Old patterns are returning

As we go through different stages in our lives, we associate with people who share our worldview. The friends you played patty cake with in daycare and pre-K might not be the same ones you had a crush on in middle school. Or even the ones you rebelled with in high school.

Think about your relationship with the friend in your dream. Were they a good influence or a bad one? This dream is probably warning you about negative peer pressure as an adult. Or to advise you to regain the positive qualities that the old friend represents in your memory.

6. Unfinished business

We lose old friends in different ways. Maybe you moved away as a kid and didn’t have a way to keep in touch, especially if you grew up before email and cell phones. Or maybe you changed your personality, job, or habits and broke up now that you have less in common with them.

Sometimes one of you gets married, has children, or embarks on a busy career and you can no longer connect physically or emotionally. If you are dreaming about that old friend, maybe someone in your life reminded you of a trait they had and you want to end the friendship.

7. Nepotism and Favors

What does it mean when you dream about your childhood best friend, high school, college, summer camp, or even a buddy at a previous job? Assuming you are no longer in contact with this person, the focus of the dream is on group dynamics in your current workplace.

You may subconsciously favor someone, and there may be tension with other people at work. Or maybe you’re trying to suck up to the boss and get a promotion. You can even be a trainer, turning one of your students into a teacher’s pet. All of this creates tension.

8. Blame

Interpersonal relationships are interesting. When we’re upset we only remember the bad things about the person, but when we’re happy they can’t go wrong. When you think of an old friend, you probably focus on the good times. What does it mean to dream about fights?

If you dream about a fight with an old friend, the news is about someone (another) in your waking life. They’re probably fighting about something and assuming it’s all their fault. Your guardian angels are sending you this dream to remind you that you played a part in this mess.

9. Healing Tips

To dream of an old friend can be a sad or a loving moment. But the spiritual interpretation of this dream has nothing to do with that buddy from your past. Instead, think about what you were doing in the dream. Was it homework? Shopping? A sleepover? A celebration? Housework only?

Something in this scenario is relevant to your waking life, so ask your angels to make it clear. Perhaps you and your friend were working on a puzzle in a dream, and the exercise holds the key to solving a puzzle at work. Or maybe you need their calm demeanor in this crisis.

10. Hope and Vision

Maybe you haven’t seen someone for years and they suddenly appear in your dreams. Under these circumstances, you should consider whether the dream is a prophetic vision or a symbolic clue. And if you ask nicely, your heavenly helpers can show you what’s what.

For example, if you dream that an old friend is pregnant, it could be a sign that she is expecting a child, so that is a vision. But it could also be a visual reminder that you will remain friends for life (just like the child growing inside her). So do not rush to congratulate her!

11. Name related meanings

Sometimes you meet someone on the street and they seem vaguely familiar. They are friendly and act like they know you. They even seem excited to see you. So you assume that it is an acquaintance from your childhood and mirror their enthusiasm back to them.

Later you might try to find out who exactly they were! But what if you dream about an old friend and remember his name exactly? Try using a dictionary of names to see if your angels might say something on the subject, e.g. Patience, Purity, Serenity or Beau.

12. Job-Related Messages

A dream about a girlfriend named Lily or Nivea can be a call to let more light into your life as both names mean white. But if you dream about an old friend, try to remember (or ask around and find out) what they do for a living. It can be a current or past occupation.

Your spirit guide could be using your old friend to send you a message related to his profession. To dream of a doctor or nurse could mean that you are ill. Dreaming about a fellow teacher could herald trouble at your child’s school. A backmate could mean a party soon!

13. Role-Related Messages

Some of us have a handful of friends while others have hundreds. But many of us have different friends for different situations. Maybe your stylish friend will take you shopping. Or the buddy with the green thumb who advises you on gardening. Or the party friends for the weekend.

So if you have a dream about an old friend, think about the role he has played in your life. Were they the quiet, wise, smart countryman who held you when you got dumped? I’m sorry, maybe you’ll break up soon! If you dream of college drinking buddies, maybe you will be partying soon!

14. Unacknowledged loneliness

Some say your college friends will be with you for life. Others think your middle school friends are the best because they know your unfiltered, uncurated, teenage self. However, we all have friends from our past that we look back on with affection and longing.

So if you dream about someone like that, you might have a missing element in your current circle of friends. Maybe you want someone you can just sit quietly with. No plans, no agenda, just mutual camaraderie. We rarely get that as adults except through romance.

15. Emotional longing

On the other hand, many of us have had (and have) secret crushes on our friends. So what does it mean when you dream about an old friend you were silently in love with? You know the joke: Question: What do you say when your crush likes you too? Answer: fantasy.

But seriously, to dream of an old crush liking you again means you are feeling love worthy. It is a sign of confidence and self-confidence. Your higher helpers are reminding you how awesome and lovable you are. They tell you it’s time to stop being so down.

16. Social Anxiety

When you wake up from the dream mentioned above, you might be tempted to call and confess to that old crush. (We wouldn’t recommend it, at least not based on a dream!) But what if you dream about that old friend rejecting you? And it’s not necessarily a romantic rejection.

Maybe you got into high school and they picked a new audience and left you out. Or they didn’t invite you to a party. These events probably didn’t happen in your history together, but they feel so real! The dream means that you subconsciously fear rejection from your current companions.

17. Self-Acceptance

Here’s another zinger – what does it mean when you dream about dating, kissing or marrying an old friend? No, that doesn’t mean you have to look them up on Facebook to see if they’re single! Unless, of course, they called out of the blue to tell you they’re available now…

Usually the dream is celebrated by your spirit guides. It means that you now love and accept your whole self, good and bad. And that’s what your soul strives for. The dream means that an old friend’s love sentiment is being sent from your higher self to your lower self. Enjoy it!

18. Repressed Desires

On the other end of the spectrum, what does it mean when you dream about an old friend ignoring you? It’s not a high school friend who doesn’t recognize you because you’ve changed so much. This is someone who saw you, made brief eye contact, and then walked past.

You’re sure they can tell who you are because your relationship was so close. And you didn’t have a fight. This dream can be extremely confusing. But don’t call your buddy and yell. The dream is about you, not them. And it means you hide deep needs from yourself.

19. Social transformation

You may have heard a version of the following complaint: “Not everyone is your friend! Learn to define people as colleagues, acquaintances, or colleagues.” It seems easy, but in social spaces it becomes difficult. You may see them as pals, but they see you as casual!

So what does it mean when you dream about someone touching on your past but suddenly acting like your best friend? Your guardian angels are sending love to you. You are about to make meaningful connections, find true friendships, and expand your network.

20. Deep seated grudges

The human brain is a strange thing. It creates thousands of thoughts every day, but we don’t always know what’s going through our heads. Or in our hearts. So our angels use dreams to bring out some of that darkness. What are they saying if you dream about killing an old pal?

We’re assuming this is someone you really liked (as opposed to an enemy or a tolerated member of your society). The dream implies that you have hidden anger and unacknowledged resentment. Ask your angels to show you where it stings and how to heal the pain.

21. TLC required

As we keep saying, the people, objects or animals you see in your dreams are rarely literal. So if you dream about old friends, they are not the point of the dream. Yes, you can see them, recognize them and even now their names. But the dream is not about her at all.

It’s more about the feelings and memories they evoke. And more often than not, you need the warmth, empathy, fun, and sense of belonging that your friends used to give you. Ask your spirit guides to show you people in your daily love who can offer the same level of support.

When was the last time you dreamed about an old friend? Tell us all about it in the comments!